I cant trust her

[mysteryman]

A few weeks back a girl added me on icq she was cool I developed a crush. A few days later I find out she has a bf two days later they break up. Anyhow thats been a week ago but I was reading her bfs Lj and it says their back together and right on shes saying stuff like she loves him? I asked her about it a few times and got real mad, she said she lis trying to hook up with me and that she likes him a lot but if this the way its gona be to forget it. Plus shes grounded for another 4 weeks so I cant meet her until then. So i dont know what to do? I really like her plus she goes to a school 10 miles away from mine. I mean I wana be with her but I dont want to get hurt.

 

Thanks

Mysteryman

[raggamuffin]

Ok a relationship that gets off to a start like this is probably going to take some work. If you dont trust her than i honestly wouldnt bother with her because honestly trust is everything.

 

Dont worry about getting hurt too much because most of my lessons in life have come from being hurt. So being hurt to a certain extent can be a valuable lesson.

 

Good Luck with this one!

[mysteryman]

Most of the time I would back away but in the end.. I really like her and wana be with her. I really hate that I dont trust her. I mean its a horrible feeling. And can think of nothing else better than to be with her. And yah one must make a mistake to learn lol. Anyhow thanks for your help

 

Mysteryman

[MetallicAguy]

Seems like she likes both of you because you both fill in her "missing qualities". These women I avoid lol, so the best thing to do is to leave her alone. Or stick with it and deal with a girl that doesn't love you and possibly get cheated on.

[mysteryman]

you always seem to find these posts but i still appreciate ur help lol. I mean I want a good gf and she is a cool and nice and pretty girl yet I really dont wana get cheated on and all. So Im stuck between a rock and a hard place. but thanks 4 ur help.

 

Mysteryman

[DN]

if people get angry when asked a reasonbale question it usually means they have something to hide.

[mysteryman]

Well I asked her 3 times.. but it wasnt in a row.. it was spread out over about 30 minutes but Id keep finding new things. But now shes ignoring me.

[DN]

time to move on...

[mt_joy]

Yeah, it's best to move on now. If you can't trust her before you begin a relationship with her, you will trust her even less once you are together. Just forget it.