Masturbation Abstination

[Deckman33]

Hello all, well I don't know if this matter has been discussed around here previously. But I was just wondering for all of you out there who masturbate, how long can you go without it? And do girls out there have more control over this?

[jaiva]

I don't get off by masturbating. I don't find pleasure it. I also don't find pleasure in being fingered.

Jaiva

[nutbuster]

i went without it for like a month and a half

[PAdreamer]

Hmm... I don't know. I don't think about it much... it's actually sort of routine for me. I've never thought of trying to go without it. I'm sure I could...

[arwen]

Ehm *blushing*

 

Now that I have a very regular sexlife of at least once a day when we see each other (and yes, lol, we see each other practically every day)...

 

I don't anymore. However... I have been in longdistance, at that time it was kinda necessary I guess. When I was single for a long time (1.5 years), I noticed that the urge was really decreasing. Just because I wasn't looking for a relationship at one point.

 

Longest without sex AND masturbation... I have no idea. I think it must have been a month, when I broke up for the first time with my first boyfriend, we were each other's first and the pain and memory would be too much to enjoy it I think.

 

Ilse.

[aphrodite24]

Being in a long distance relationship, not getting any for months factors on how often I've masturbated. Sometimes I just get in the mood for sex and I can't have it, and so the only thing left to do is pleasure myself. Oh, I have gone 8 months without it.

[Daddyslilgrlx0]

I have gone maybe about 5 days and thats all.

[Jecto]

I do, and the longest I have gone without it is about 4.5 months

[fallslikerain]

Masterbating til you come or just massaging yourself to near climax?

 

I'll definetely admit I have a problem with the massaging part, because I don't feel as sensitive as I used to with partners and whatnot, i'm trying to cut back (its been about a day) since I would do this multiple times a day. I definetely find it hard to get thru a day without playing with myself for 10 minutes.

 

as far as bringing myself to climax, I usually do it once or twice a week, depends how upset/stressed I am. I tend to like the sensations before coming better than the coming itself.

[SPark]

I have great self-control when there is reason to have it, but fortunately most of the time there isn`t...LOL.

 

The longest I`ve gone without sex AND masturbation is probably a couple of months...I was going through a lot of emotional upheaval and found that, instead of relieving the stress as it usually does, masturbation made me sad, so I took a break. I used the excess energy to try to fix what was wrong in my life, and when things got better the urges came back and the sadness melted away.

[andy8]

i find the longer you go with out the better it is i went for 4 weeks

[Stars89]

I don't get off by masturbating. I don't find pleasure it. I also don't find pleasure in being fingered.

Jaiva

 

me too~!! what do u find pleasure in?