Ex fling

[Airi25]

I have this problem with my boyfriend idk if I'm just being stupid i don't know but here goes

 

So my boyfriend keeps talking to the girl he had sex with a few days before we started going out she keeps wanting to come over to his house to see him should I be ok with that I don't know if I'm over reacting by telling him no should I be ok with them being friends. Juat hearing her name puts me in a horrible mood. I don't know what to do

[Helpexpressme]

Absolutely not.

 

You are his girlfriend, his first commitment should be to you.

[Aloneinmymind]

As far as being friends you can't exactly tell him who he's allowed to be friends as he is a grown man. But knowing that they've been intimate is definitely a problem. And u should talk to him and let him know how seriously uncomfortable it makes you for him to keep in contact with her and how strongly you disagree with her being in his home.

[Movingforward3]

I don't think he should be seeing her. You are uncomfortable with what he told you and he should respect that.

[missmarple]

I wouldn't accept it and if he insisted on talking to her, I'd break up with him. No 'buts' about it.

[Starseed98]

I predict nothing but a bad ending if you let this girl come and visit your boyfriend. Just be open with him and tell him that you aren't comfortable with it and if he puts up a fuss, I think you will know what to do.