what should i do...

[creascent-moon]

hi, im new here,

 

took me a while to log in, only to realise i miss-spelled my nick, lol

 

anyways, ill explain what i need help with.

 

im a young guy, in september, ill be moving away for university, but last november i met someone, at first she was just a friend, but since about january, i have felt more than just that for her, i realised that she was able to make me smile by her mere presense, even when i was feeling way down. for the first time in my life, in march, my heart was able to convince my mind of something, and it was that i was in love with her. and the more time i would spend with her, the more i would realise it, i would miss her when she stepped out of the room, and be happy to hear her voice.

 

she is a very sweet, funny, gentle, beautiful, intelligent person, shes a bit on the shy side.

 

last monday, just before she went to her classes, i told her that i would like to speak with her about something, so we decided to meet at around 2 to talk. well, i told her how i felt, im also a shy person so this was extremely hard for me. well her initial reaction was your leaving soon" we stared into each others eyes for i dont know how long, we told each other that we could always talk about it another timewhen there was more time, then continued to look deep into our eyes then just said bye since she had classes.

 

well, since then, she has not soken to me, and has looked at me maybe once that i noticed, we used to speak everyday, alot, and have fun, go out play pool, anything, but now, i dont know...

 

what do you think i should do, and most importantly, what do you think she is thining... we have alot of mutual friends, but shes a pretty private person, and no one really knows...

 

thnx in advanced...

[GradyQ]

Don't worry, you aren't doomed to live a life of solitude just yet. You're young, and trust me, once you get to college, there are going to be so many chicks that make you forget about whatshername, it will make your head spin.

 

My advice to you: you've already done too much. Lay low now, don't sweat her anymore. She knows how you feel, the seed has been planted, now the ball is in her court. But most important: don't get intimidated and start acting twitchy. Girls hate that. Treat her exactly the same as normal now, show her it doesn't have to be weird between you just because you professed your love for her (and basically hung your nuts out there).

 

Good Luck, and bang at least ONE girl in college just for the GQ, dedicate her to me and remember I was right!

[NoCturnal DrAgoN]

I'm in a same situation. I really like this girl in school and I think I should tell her how I feel about her but I'm really shy. I've read posts similar to this one, most of the time people are saying that the person stopped talking to them after telling them how they feel. Nobody likes akward situations and I'm afraid that will happen to me also. Should I just go and tell her anyways?

[creascent-moon]

Don't worry, you aren't doomed to live a life of solitude just yet. You're young, and trust me, once you get to college, there are going to be so many chicks that make you forget about whatshername, it will make your head spin.

 

My advice to you: you've already done too much. Lay low now, don't sweat her anymore. She knows how you feel, the seed has been planted, now the ball is in her court. But most important: don't get intimidated and start acting twitchy. Girls hate that. Treat her exactly the same as normal now, show her it doesn't have to be weird between you just because you professed your love for her (and basically hung your nuts out there).

 

Good Luck, and bang at least ONE girl in college just for the GQ, dedicate her to me and remember I was right!

 

 

i dont think so, i know her enough to know that the reason she isnt speaking to me is most probably her shyness, and i am not the kind of guy that bangs girls just for the GQ. I am not a player, and i look down on that kind of person.

 

i dont plan on acting "twitchy". even though the ball is technically in her court, i think she doesnt know what to do with it. tomorow, ill go see her if i have time, i should, and then just try to talk to her about it and anything, just talk, see what happens.

 

 

anyways, well see what happens.

 

and NoCturnal DrAgoN, if you feel that it would be right to tell her, tell her, if not, if you are not 100% sure that your feelings are genuine than do not, youll just hurt yourself and her in the long run