Is he really bi?

[Jetta]

His friends say he's gay. He says he's bi, but his friends say he has only had the 1 female relationship which resulted in a child. I was/am very attracted to him, but he's gay they say so I have tried to distance myself. However it seems like he's turning up in places he'll know I'll be, which could be a coinsidence but I don't think it is. Now when I'm around he flirts a lot with very attractive women. Is he trying to get the message accross that he is bi, or playing me? I'm really not getting his game, and wondering if anyone here can help.

[Luscious]

Does he know that you think he's gay?

[Jetta]

I believe he knows, I'm pretty easy to read. It seems since I started strongly believing he was gay he's been more out there with women. It's kind of funny and really annoying all at the same time.

[cooldude1234]

If he is saying he is bi, that probably means he is interested in women. Maybe you should ask him again? What his friends say is another thing, you shouldn't really care what they say. If he says he's into women as well, then he most likely is.

 

I hope this helps

[Luscious]

Well, if his friends says he's gay its probably not to far from the truth. Are you sure you want to get involve with someone where you're not sure about their standings? But on the other hand if yall become friends he might tell you what he prefers.

[Luscious]

Sorry, I misread your post, you can only take his word at face value if your interested go for it. Nothing beats a try but a failure!!! Maybe he's interested also and he's trying to show you that he does like women too by flirting with them.

[lady00]

If he says he's bi, then believe him...he knows himself best. Just because he's only had one relationship with a woman doesn't mean he isn't open to having more. I just can't see why he would say he is bi if he is not.

[Jetta]

Thanks. I just needed to hear others perspective on this. I do believe him, but his friends had said it more than once so I started to wonder if I was living in a fantasy or something. He looked me in the eyes when I left in addition to a few other things that have me believing the flirting was for my benefit (although it really was pissing me off to where I had my back to him most of the night). He said he was going to leave and I gave some kind of reaction (in my mind it was relief I'd be spared more antics) and he ended up STAYING!

 

Of course I know how I feel but I can only guess how he's feeling. My problem is I don't want to feel how I'm feeling. When I first met him I said I don't want to like to him, and there's a million reasons not to but I am still attracted to him and I've been trying to figure out why. Well I'm having fun for now.

[keeper_of_the_peace]

His friends say he's gay. He says he's bi, but his friends say he has only had the 1 female relationship which resulted in a child. I was/am very attracted to him, but he's gay they say so I have tried to distance myself. However it seems like he's turning up in places he'll know I'll be, which could be a coinsidence but I don't think it is. Now when I'm around he flirts a lot with very attractive women. Is he trying to get the message accross that he is bi, or playing me? I'm really not getting his game, and wondering if anyone here can help.

 

I don't know, but if it were me I would want to be around to hear, loud and clear, the words "I'm bi" coming out of his mouth...When he said he was bi, were you there?

 

I guess I'm kind of wondering too why you chose to distance yourself from him just because his friends said he's gay...Couldn't you feel him out yourself by developing a friendship with him first?

 

It's hard to say why he's showing up in the same places that you are...Flirting with other girls. It could be a coinsidence, or it could be that he's trying to get your attention. Maybe he wants you to take the next step. I think you should pursue this a little further...

[Jetta]

Keeper,

I distanced myself because I felt played and foolish when I was told.