need sum advice : (

[swordfish]

i recently found out a girl i really like has a boyfriend. It was through an e-mail she sent me. but she gave no indication to me that she did even though ive given hints that i liked her. shes even said 'lets do lunch' to me. i want to find out whether she does have a boyfriend or not but not just ask. n e advice?

[redbabymama]

If this girl told you she has a boyfriend, but keeps flirting, it means it out of 3 things:

 

1.She isnt that commited.

2.She isnt sure about her relationship and wants to play the field.

3.She just wants to toy with you.

 

If she asked you "to do lunch" she probably meant it in a friendly way.

[swordfish]

quite true. i think i might just try to leave it and move on. whats worse then being just good friends. thanx mate much appreciated.