Sex Postitions

[cooldude1234]

DragonGirl724, don't worry. You've probably helped out a few people with ideas they can try in their relationships. And I'm pretty sure whatever guy is lucky enough to end up with you will really enjoy being with you.

 

hahaha, YEAH. I'm actually kind of jealous of whoever her boyfriend is/was. hahahahaha

[Gauchori]

...aren't we all... lol ha ha j/k

[unexpectedvictim57]

hey your complaining about N.Y.?? OMG!!! i live in ottawa! the past 3 days have been at leats -40 with windchill girl! i need some sun!!

[Gauchori]

-40!!!?!?!??! uuuu.... its 55F over here an I'm cold... imagine how I'll be over there....

 

I used to live in a cold place thought... and I was used to the cold weather... If you left a bucket of water outside you would had found ice there the next morning.... But your body gets used to the weather of the place your living in... which is good...

[unexpectedvictim57]

but whats 55 in celcius?? like its -40 degrees C not F......... i donno how that works.... but yes........ definatly frozen water, after like 1 hour or something. lol! its quite chilli!!

[DragonGirl724]

DragonGirl724, don't worry. You've probably helped out a few people with ideas they can try in their relationships. And I'm pretty sure whatever guy is lucky enough to end up with you will really enjoy being with you.

 

hahaha, YEAH. I'm actually kind of jealous of whoever her boyfriend is/was. hahahahaha

...aren't we all... lol ha ha j/k

 

im very flattered. hehehe

& no bf, i spent 8 months stressin an ex last year but since ive moved on & have a friend w/ benefits.

 

ill think of some more tips & tricks & post them here.

 

-DG724

[DragonGirl724]

Dragon Girl...

 

Dang you I was having a good day handling my emotions until i read your description of 'froggie style', well so much for getting any work done now. LOL.

 

hahaha! thats hilarious.

 

well, im sure ill post more here, so BEWARE!!!! hahaha dont let the boss find out. thats what lunch breaks are for.

 

-DG724

[DragonGirl724]

hmmmm...how to word this .......im gonna try my hardest to NOT make this seem pornographic! this is meant to explain techniques...nothing more than that. lol

 

For the Ladies: here are some tips on giving good...... head.

 

* to stir things up a little try removing his pants/belt/underwear with your teeth. its amazing that when you concentrate you can unbutton & unzip jeans w/o using any hands. it kinda sets the 'oral mood'. it slightly indicates some of the talented techniques to come his way in the near future... kinda gets the mind wondering...& him thinking: "THIS IS GONNA BE GOOOOOOOOD!"

 

* start off slow, dont dive in like a maniac this is your man's prized possesion we're talkin about the last thing hell ever want is for anything to cause it any kind of harm or damage, let alone 'scare it away'. lol

 

-licking the shaft & testicles (while looking up at him) & slowly but firmly gripping & sliding your hand along the shaft in an upright position is a good way to start off. glance back to 'his package' every now & then close your eyes for a short while & REALLY CONCENTRATE! if you pay close attention you can feel slight twitches & movements actually inside the penis & that can help guide you to find out if this dude is liking what youre doing or not. remember: a man knows when a chick is realllly diggin the fact that shes gettin him off. dont do it half a**ed sex should be about fully pleasing the other person. so i suggest do it right if youd like the same kind of treatment in return.

 

* once he is fully erect & raring to go position your upper body to accomidate the position he is in so the penis is upright. & you can begin to 'dive in'. just for an FYI: if you use condoms during oral sex, it usually 'lessens' the pleasure for a man, but if youd rather go the 'better safe than sorry route' try fla vor ed condoms & if you think you can do it without tearing the latex, attempt to put on the condom by using only your mouth. but you have to wait til hes fully erect & be careful to fold your lips over your teeth so there isnt a risk of ripping the condom.

 

-try going as far down the shaft as you can. while using your stronger hand to cover whatever is left of the shaft that you cant stimulate orally & keep whatever rhythm youre got goin on with your mouth simoutaneous with the rhythm you have with your hand to basically 'cover as much ground as you can' without losing the beat. if you can coordinate it enough to do those 2 things at once while using your other hand to massage his testicles thats always a plus. heres a hint: there is a spot on a man right behind his testicles & before his butt some refer to as a 'taint' (b/c it-aint the balls & it-aint the *** lol) well theres a spot around there that if treated properly can reallllly stimulate an orgasm.

 

-to switch it up you can sometimes get into that 'happy zone' w/ your toungue or finger (its tough if you have nails though so try using your knuckle(s) )

 

* keep eye contact if possible, but its understandable if youd rather focus on whats in front of you to not lose concentration. but a 'look' every now & then can really draw him even further into the experience.

 

-this is the time where you have to 'know your man' pick up slight hints he may throw at you. if hes slightly pushing on your head he will like for you to go deeper. is he hlds your shoulders or holds your head he likes everything about the moment & doesnt want you to move. if it seems as if he is 'thrusting' into your mouth he may want you to go deeper & faster. sometimes a guy may gently touch or hold your chin or side of your face. he may just be a mental thing like: 'that his prize is in there right now' kinda thing...or maybe he wants you to do more 'internal work'.

 

-what i mean by that is toungue action. try going around his shaft in circles or up & down without losing whatever rhythm you have at the moment. clockwise then going counterclockwise is usually a good thing for most men & pay attention to the vein on the side of the shaft. ive realized that it seems to be quite important. be careful: not to drag your teeth while providing oral sex. *OUCH & DOUBLE OUCH!* (hey some are into that kinda thing but for those who arent be careful not to drag those pearly whites..) try folding your lips around your teeth so that doesnt happen. but dont hurt yourself in the process.

 

* once you seem to have control of the situation & know what he likes & doesnt like. try to take away your hand & utilize his entire shaft orally. but switch it up to suit both yours & his needs. keep your confidence & focus on him. this is HIS time & youre doing all you can to make it worth his while. what a good girlfriend you are.

 

* a generalized tip is to increase speed right before him climaxing. you can feel his shaft begin to swell up & you can feel the tension throughout his entire body if done right. he may grab ahold of your head or something stabelized right before the "big O". so keep this in mind when he starts to do things like this NOT to lose concentration! you did all this work to get him here just keep it up, a slight change in focus or rhythm can REALLY end this for him & not in a good way . he seems to love whatever youre doing if it brought him to this point of almost finishing, so DONT CHANGE ANYTHING! keep it up & focus harder & harder on it & pay attention to whats going on 'inside your man' (i find that closing your eyes during this time lowers my chances of getting distracted & allows me to focus more so he can finally have his moment).

 

* AHHHHHHHHHH YESSSSSSSSS!!!! old faithful did not let him down this time!!! you provided excellent oral sex & he just finished climaxing! *congratulations* lol once the muscle spasms, screaming, & releasing is over THAT DOESNT MEAN THE JOB IS OVER. hehehe

 

* slowly give him a cool down, remove your hands from his shaft & slowlllllllyyyyyyyyyy gentlllllllllllllly 'orally massage' his 'manhood'. this is when good eye contact is key. sex is just like a work out (but better), you do foreplay as a warm up, you do what needs to be done, then a cool down is needed. plus it makes clean up a whole lot easier.

 

i hope i didnt miss anything. i may post another reply for the FELLAS! maybe itll answer some of those questions you have about us females.

 

hope this helped anyone who was confused about providing oral to your man.

 

-DG724

[Vert]

OMG.... Uhh... I gotta go... uhhhh... workout... yeah.... be back later

[Gauchori]

... save some room for me bro!!!

[sasha12]

omg drangongirl, How do we go about paracticing these techniques! I need to find a blowup companion! LOL

[ShySoul]

dragongirl,

 

Have you ever thought of writing a book on this stuff? I'll help spread the word. Not only would it be a bestseller but couples everywhere would be in your debt. Forget all those other sex therapists, I think you've found your calling.

 

So, are you sure you don't want to fly out here? I'll pay.

[Gauchori]

drangongirl... just remember me when you're on top of everything... 8)

 

By the way I'm Gauchori lol

[DragonGirl724]

omg drangongirl, How do we go about paracticing these techniques! I need to find a blowup companion! LOL

 

hahaha! i wouldnt substitute for an imitations, do you have a bf/ or friend with benefits you can 'practice' on? honestly the best way to get the best results is to give it all you got & concentrate on ABSOLUTLY NOTHING ELSE but what youre doing. i know some people's mind tend to drift b/c they simply are not 'into it too much'. once you cross that line you find that you WANT to break a sweat & do it the right way. some people are thinking about other things like their shopping list, soap operas, sales @ the mall, or simply just waiting for it to be all over with. concentrate fully on what youre doing & once you get it down, itll sound weird to undertand what im talkin about, but you'll eventually 'be on the same page as him & you kinda know how every slight move you make will alter his current feeling. & in a way you can feel it too'. its crazy but its def cool once you make that transition & exclude everythng else in the world & focus on giving him the ultimate sexual pleasure. give it a try.

 

-DG724

[DragonGirl724]

dragongirl,

 

Have you ever thought of writing a book on this stuff? I'll help spread the word. Not only would it be a bestseller but couples everywhere would be in your debt. Forget all those other sex therapists, I think you've found your calling.

 

So, are you sure you don't want to fly out here? I'll pay.

 

its funny my friend not on the forum read my post & he said: "when did u become such a conisaur of the penis?"

 

i dunno maybe i got something goin here. haha

 

ps: youll pay huh?

 

-DG724

[DragonGirl724]

drangongirl... just remember me when you're on top of everything... 8)

 

lol was that a sexual innuendo?

 

nice to meet you Gauchori.

 

PS: you know what i think it is....once you (as in females) learn the sensitivity of the penis & how it entices a male in different stages of erection, think of it this way: "hmmm if I had a penis what would I want done to me?"

 

-DG724

[Vert]

DAMN.... The sexual tension here is so heavy you can't cut through it with a pen...is this going too far?

 

Regardless, I told her that as well -- she should write a book on this stuff. Forget Dr Ruth... we have Dr DG.

 

Now, how about those pointers on how to please your woman? Well, for the guys with a woman to have sex with... not me... as I'm currently single

[Gauchori]

yeah... I thought the tips for men were coming soon... anways...

nice to meet you too DragonGirl724

 

and by the way... I didn't meant on top as in...... ....... I meant on top as in being really famous..... 8)

[Vert]

Wait on it gauchori.... she's posting it soon, I hear

[DragonGirl724]

as i promised here is some tips for the FELLAS :

 

for those of you that are visual learners check out this websyte:

shb.ie/content-1742375936_1.cfm

 

(it breaks down 'all the girly parts' that make up the better 1/2 of the population- the females .) hahahaha jk

 

nah for real it really describes, to put in such words, "all the orphases" & "parts" of the female anatomy. BUT NOT TO MAKE THIS SOUND LIKE AN ONLINE SEX ED CLASS just check that websyte out if at any point of this post you get confused & say: 'wait, where is that again??'

 

* oral sex for some, if not most, females is far more pleasurable than actual intercourse. to some it plays a very vital role of an intimate relationship. a girl friend of mine stayed w/ her boyfriend -now husband- (b/c he was a nice guy of course) BUT she admitted a big part of it was b/c "he knows how to eat *****."

 

its easier for some females to reach orgasm via oral sex rather than intercourse simply b/c of 2 things:

 

The Almighty Clitoris

 

and

 

the surrounding nerves of the vagina.

 

those 2 areas are the most sensitive for a woman.

 

* in my previous post i informed the ladies to start oral sex off in an interesting way...to remove any if not all clothing with the mouth & teeth. if the act is going to be oral then it should start, finish & end orally. plus girls underwear can be verrrry sexy & are practically BEGGING to be taken off sentually! (let alone with the teeth) *ROWR BABY!* its also a way to set you apart from the rest of the guys. it is very appealing to see a man carefully (or not so carefully ) take the time out to shed the fabrics hiding all that beauty. not to mention itll add to your sexual tension & in a way 'tease yourself' by brushing up against her womanhood with your lips even before getting into the act of oral. and theres nothing at all wrong w/ using your fingertips to kinda gently 'peek' at whats hiding in her underwear before removing it fully. itll kinda get her mind amped too.

 

* once the clothes are off & youve divided up plenty of time to all her body parts (breasts, legs, butt, stomach, neck, ears, lips etc,....) & its time for the REAL DEAL some cant wait to 'dive in like a hungry wolf' lol & others may be a little confused & hesitant...both perfectly normal responses.

 

* maybe im just speaking from personal likes & dislikes b/c i AM a female & all , but ill try to generalize everything to suit many girls.

 

- first id suggest to moisten the entire area. there is nothing appealing or fun about working in a dry environment. so gently navigate your toungue up & down in long strokes. spread her legs & her 'outer lips' aka LABIA (see diagram) maybe she can help you with that part. some guys love seeing a female's hand by her genitals it drives them wild so maybe she can assist in keeping them widened to make your job easier & more enjoyable. some girls prefer if their 'lips' stay closed b/c it stimulates the clitoris. but thats all personal preference. i dont think itll make much of a difference but hey, if need be, she can tell you herself which she prefers...dont worry! it sure as hell doesnt make you any less of a man to stop & ask for directions in the bedroom.

 

* locating & exploring the clit....the clitoris is located at the northern most part of the vagina & is like the 'powerhouse' of a womans sexuality. its like 'God's gift to women' . try sucking on it & GENTLY tugging at it with your teeth. hold it inbetween your teeth gently & have your mouth opened wide enough to allow your toungue to slip through & work it's magic. some guys tend to flip their toungue up & use the underside of the tip of the tougue & move it rapdly from side to side up & down & in circles. others find it easier to use the tip of their toungue & gently press it all around, like licking it but in small strokes.

 

- not to gross any of you guys out, BUT, the clit acts a lot like the 'head of a penis' minus the fact that NOTHING COMES OUT OF IT. so treat it gently when needed. (like after orgasms it usually needs a minute or 2 to get back to normal size b/c it swells upon climax, so be nice to 'her' & treat 'her' accordingly lol).

 

* while paying attention to her clitoris, utilize your hands as well to add to the sentuality. maybe via fingering or rubbing her breasts & legs. look up at her once in a while, its very enticing & 'educational' to see immediate reactions as youre doing what youre doing. you can learn a lot by facial expressions, eyes, the arching of her back, what shes doing with her hands etc....it may answer a lot of your questions you may have while doin the deed. if she has her eyes shut, dont think: 'oh she doesnt want to look at me' or 'she wishes it was another guy doing this' etc...its really not like that at all. think of it this way, when you eat something delicious & extremely satisfying what do you do? or after a session of great sex, what do you do? more than likely you lean back & close your eyes. its just our way of taking in all the pleasure, or keeping the light out of our eyes. hehehe feelings are heightened when one or more of our senses are not being used. so if we closed our eyes during sex, subconsciously we're allowing ourselves to enjoy it as much as we can.

 

take note: lol that doesnt mean break out the nose plugs, ear muffs & sunglasses while having a sexual experience, b/c somehow i think thatll just have a negative effect on it all. hahaha

 

* anyway as youre exploring your lady & orally stimulating her clitoris & you see shes getting very much into it all, try introducing a finger or 2 to her vagina. the entrance to the vagina & the clit at this point is very sensitive & welcomes attention to say the least. if fingering her entirely doesnt do much for her try just rubbing the entreance of the vagina or let your fingers enter just a little bit & go in & out just to get her nerves goin'.

 

* a girl's reaction will be more than likely a lot like how you, as a male, would react. if shes holding your head dont change anything about what youre doing. if shes pressing your head into her she wants you to be a little rough & make sure you get the entire clit. if she squirms, back arches, moans, etc...then YOU ARE THE MAN! 8) youre doing a great job.

 

-concentrate bigtime on her & feel her out. you'll be surprised how you may find yourself on the same page as her & figure out exactly what shes looking for without even saying a word. it just takes time.

 

* youll know shes ready to hit the "big O" when shell start breathing heavier, her clit will begin to swell, & her vagina will become tighter. its hard to tell how a person will react during orgasm, some chicks will clamp up & close their legs & wedge you inbetween lol & some want to be entirely spread eagle. but whichever she decides dont stop doin what youre doin. whatever youre doing just keep it up, some girls prefer to be stimulated faster vaginally while about to orgasm. but if your girl is extremely caught up in whatever youre doing. by all means dont stop & start a 'new idea'. that is the most FRUSTRATING PAINFUL thing to do. its like blueballs but for girls! and it pisses us off. lol

 

* once youve successfully pleased your woman & gave her your all. she deserves a gentle sentual cool down. slowly & i mean slooooollly & softly lick her whole area up & down. its highyl sensitive so i cant express how gentle to be. but leaving no inch left untouched. ever so gently kiss her clitoris & (some chicks really enjoy this) kiss her all the way back up her body, eventually making your way back up to her face level & give her a very intimate, sentual, passionate kiss.

 

it really can be a very sweet & sexy way to end it...or if youre lucky...just get it started.

 

*NOTE TO GUYS & GALS i found that a great way to show deep appreciation post-sexual-encounter, is to give eachother full body massages....in the nude of course. i know that as a fact that when girls climb on the back of your men & rub your entire body over theirs, dont leave an inch unscathed & let your hair down, the feminitity of your hair & body pressed against his can be orgasmic all in itself. *

 

-DG724

[sweet_bebcho]

hey your complaining about N.Y.?? OMG!!! i live in ottawa! the past 3 days have been at leats -40 with windchill girl! i need some sun!!

I know what you mean. I used to live in Ottawa too and it used drop to about -35 in February, at that was the warm year of 2001. I moved to England and if it goes to 3 degrees, everyone is all coated up and stuff and I'm like I'm from Ottawa, you should visit there sometime in the dead of winter.

[Gauchori]

dang.... well I'm happy I live in Florida 8)

[7CardStud]

Least u all don't live in Minnesota...

 

We are practically Canadians... haha!

 

Coldest Winters and Really Hot Summers... With Crappy Weather 50% of the time...

[Gauchori]

Know what you mean.... killing summers and freezing winters... I lived in Buenos Aires Argentina.....

[bilal72401]

what are sex positions good for when u cant find a gf