Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Alright i went out with some old friends and i told my lady friend to invite one of our former high school classmates out that is newly single...well we all got buzzed up and had a good night and me and the chick flirted a little too! Well the next day i get a random text from her about the night before that(it was mean spirited about someone that was at the bar but we made light of it)....i made her laugh alot the night before and also in the text. But the thing is...i didn't give her my number and we are friends on facebook...she could have just inboxed me but went out of her way to find my number and text me instead...do you think she wants me to have her number? I believe that just because the way she went about it....thoughts? Link to comment
mhowe Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 If you want to keep your lady friend I wouldn't give it another her thought. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 Im not going to pursue it so to speak...i think we have alot in common(especially a crude sense of humor but like i said i believe she went out of her way to text me (got my number from our mutual friend) when she could have just facebook messaged me Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 I did not give her my number nor did i ask for hers...i just think i sparked her interest because i feel like she texted me to "give me her number" Link to comment
mhowe Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 You seem quite impressed. It went like this...Jane, can you give me Wolfmans number." Link to comment
Rosti87 Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Im not going to pursue it so to speak...i think we have alot in common(especially a crude sense of humor but like i said i believe she went out of her way to text me (got my number from our mutual friend) when she could have just facebook messaged me Ever heard your mother say, "Don't touch the stove it's hot. You'll get burnt?" Apply this metaphor to your situation. If you are attached to another there is no need to explore other options. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 Well like i said she didnt need to find it and text me since we're fb friends...she could have just inboxed me...ya feel me? Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 Im single and not attached to another...im over my ex from last year....did my story confuse? Link to comment
mhowe Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Well like i said she didnt need to find it and text me since we're fb friends...she could have just inboxed me...ya feel me? No. I don't. You seem to think this is a big deal. She didn't want to contact through FB. So what. Link to comment
Rosti87 Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Im single and not attached to another...im over my ex from last year....did my story confuse? Yes it did. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 I just believe she texted me to give me her number...we both showed a little sexual interest that night no doubt. Link to comment
Rosti87 Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 I just believe she texted me to give me her number...we both showed a little sexual interest that night no doubt. To me it is not enough evidence of interest in either direction. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Maybe she used to text as a way of joining the social circle. She likely got your number from your lady friend? Think nothing of it, treat her like a fun acquaintance. Give primacy to your lady friend, not because you are exclusive or anything, but because she was the friend who invited the other friend. Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 You are single, ok. Lots of people are single and not celibate. What is the nature of your relationship with your "Lady Friend"? Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 There was no nature...high school classmate is all really(graduated over 10 years ago )...i asked my best girlfriend to invite her out since i saw on fb she is newly single and i planned on hitting on her and laughing all night (mission accomplished)....i didn't give her my number at the end of the night because im not going to get all weird on her...but alas she seeked out my number most likely from my best lady friend when ultimately she could have just fb messaged me instead....that's why I think shes interested... Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 You are single, ok. Lots of people are single and not celibate. What is the nature of your relationship with your "Lady Friend"? I'm not clear: do you have a sexual or romantic relationship with any of the women from that night? Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 Bottom line she seeked me out the next day....i think i sparked something but am not going to go after it. I think i planted the seed...we laughed our asses of texting! Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 NO NONE! Me and my best girlfriend had sex one time like 7 years ago but were just great friends.. Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 Forget what i said with the ex...shes not apart of this post...shes history now Link to comment
JohnSimons1901 Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Sounds like to me she interested and you could easily arrange to meet and have a sexual relationship with this girl, she is chasing you which is always a good sign she wants the D Link to comment
Wolfman389 Posted January 11, 2015 Author Share Posted January 11, 2015 See thats kinda what i was thinking...she seeked out my cell number and texted me to give me because a midget was following her around at the bar because of me haha!! So she gave me crap and we both joked with crude humor about it...i found a meme that said," we should go to a midget festival and dress up as godzilla" she rolled with laughter, said we're going to hell and that we'd have a lovely time! Link to comment
IAmFCA Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Wolfie, She got your number from your friend, you and your friend have been friends for years. If you dig this woman for casual sex, ask her out for a beer. It doesn't sound like you are up for anything substantive, so what is there to lose. Link to comment
junebug123 Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 Sounds like to me she interested and you could easily arrange to meet and have a sexual relationship with this girl, she is chasing you which is always a good sign she wants the D What he said, also i think people were confused because you said 'lady friend', instead of just friend, so maybe there was an implication of you being more than friends. Link to comment
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