Superus Posted November 8, 2014 Share Posted November 8, 2014 So this girl wanted to hangout with me today. (we been seeing each other for weeks) but today i couldn't, she was very persistent to the point where i started to get annoyed. I was very nice on my text msgs and she replied with this. I believe we are just FWB. Me - "No sorry i can't do today next time tho." Her- " alright" Me - Are you serious with that frown? Her - i was typing in a hurry and i picked the saddest emoji but it's cool i ended doing blah blah" Me - lol thanks for clearing that up because i was going to say you shouldn't really care. Her- lol sadly you don't have to remind me not to care What did she mean by that last text msg? (for anyone that has been reading my post everyone concluded that she has low self esteem and needs some sort of validation) Link to comment
Beautiful Nightmare Posted November 8, 2014 Share Posted November 8, 2014 She knows she shouldn't care because you've made it clear you only see her as a booty call. But she does care, unfortunately - which is why she was disappointed that she couldn't see you. Translation: she has feelings for you. You acted like a jerk when you basically told her she shouldn't. That's my interpretation, anyway. Link to comment
Superus Posted November 8, 2014 Author Share Posted November 8, 2014 I can tell she does a lot of protection of her feelings but she doesn't out right tell me, i just pick it up. It's like she doesn't want to be exposed. I didn't pick this type of relationship, it just fell that way because in our dinner "dates" she said her longest relationship was 5 months and she likes fling relationships. then she ended with saying "that doesn't mean i'm not a person to not have a relationship with" when she told me that i basically wrote her intentions has FWB. but her actions are different because she wants to go on dates etc. Link to comment
Atomic Woman Posted November 8, 2014 Share Posted November 8, 2014 If she wants dates and you just want a FWB then cut her loose. If you want more then don't take her out! Link to comment
gone Posted November 8, 2014 Share Posted November 8, 2014 Sounds like she's going to give you a lot more drama than what you're expecting for a FWB because she doesn't want a FWB. it's a lose-lose for you both to keep seeing each other. Link to comment
mhowe Posted November 8, 2014 Share Posted November 8, 2014 You read too much into emoticons. The conversation could have ended with her text. Link to comment
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