Has anyone been in a "Heartbreak Kid" situation?

[sidburn]

That is, you got married, engaged, or moved in with your SO and met a person who seemed to be your true soulmate afterwards? If so, how did it all turn out?

[Clinton]

That scenario in real life always ends badly. And if you don't think your current partner is your soulmate, get a divorce first, then seek someone else out. If you are using your partner as a fallback until you find someone better it's gutless.

[bulletproof]

I don't believe in a "soul mate." Based on your past threads, you are still struggling with your relationship. It sounds like you have a lot of doubt and you should probably just move on instead of worrying if this is the best you'll ever do.

[DancingFool]

If I'm thinking something like that, it's my giant flashing neon sign that tells me that I'm with the wrong person and better get out of this. As they say, there is your clue.....

When I am with the right person it's a very comfortable, safe sort of feeling, contentment. In short, I may run into all kinds of people, but my heart and mind do not wander in different directions. If that's not how you are feeling, you really should seriously evaluate what you are doing. To marry and then later run into your right match....it's the stuff that nightmares are made of.