neil213 Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Just had a question. Ex wrote to me on fb. All she said was... "just thought I'd say hi..." what do you think?? What she tryn to get at?should I respond or just not respond at all? In a way I have mixed feelings about this, just dont have no words to say to her, but I don't know if I should respond. Been thinking on it for a day about responding. Hmmm. Lost with this one ha! Link to comment
mercedes79 Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 You single? If your in a relationship or anything somewhat like that..no. Did it take a long time to get over her?..then no. What are your loses? Bad breakup? Something's to ask yourself. Good luck!! Link to comment
miss_sunshine Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 You must have mixed feelings about it if you are posting on here for answers, I would guess. Just ignore it, don't set yourself back. Link to comment
Brotherhood67 Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Just had a question. Ex wrote to me on fb. All she said was... "just thought I'd say hi..." what do you think?? What she tryn to get at?should I respond or just not respond at all? In a way I have mixed feelings about this, just dont have no words to say to her, but I don't know if I should respond. Been thinking on it for a day about responding. Hmmm. Lost with this one ha! Well I'm no expert but I'll risk this interpretation. Hang on'.... I think she wants to say "hi" ! Not sure though ^-^ Anyway do you want to answer and learn something about her ? ? Possibly that she is happy with someone else and thinking about asking you how you are for no reason ? If not. Don't answer. Wait. Hold on a second. Don't answer. Period. It's useless anyway. Link to comment
healingishard Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 who broke up with who? its possible she is simply feeling nostalgic or lonely. listen to your gut. if you can handle disapointment if things dont go as you may be hoping then take the risk. Link to comment
oneheart Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Sounds like shes lonely and wants some sort of comfort be it sex or someone to talk to. If i was single and this happened to me, I think for me it would depend on the circumstances of the break up, and i would be cautious of the intentions. Link to comment
neil213 Posted September 20, 2014 Author Share Posted September 20, 2014 I am single, she left me.. really don't know why, first it was one thing then another then many different things, her reasons kept changing. But found out she was prego after a couple months she left me. I don't know. Stop talking to her right after breakup. Don't want to know anything about her, never wanted to contact her. She was always the one to contact me. But I always ignored her, not to be an a**hole but just thought of the way she left me and other reasons. I'm just saying if she really had something to say or something meaningful. It wouldn't be a "just thought I'd say hi..." you know. Idk probably just ignore it like I always do. It's nothing to respond to. Like Brotherhood67 said it's useless anyway. What's the point haha! Link to comment
YouCanDeleteThisAccount Posted September 20, 2014 Share Posted September 20, 2014 Initially she is just saying hi to see if you'll respond. That's her only motivation right now. She's likely testing the waters to see if you are willing to be friends. Other than that, it's hard to know if she has any further motives. But she does wonder about you. Link to comment
neil213 Posted September 21, 2014 Author Share Posted September 21, 2014 I'm single, she left me.. really don't know why, first it was one thing then another then many different things, her reasons kept changing. But found out she was prego after a couple months she left me. I don't know. Stop talking to her right after breakup. Don't want to know anything about her, never wanted to contact her. She was always the one to contact me. But I always ignored her, not to be an a**hole but just thought of the way she left me and other reasons. I'm just saying if she really had something to say or something meaningful. It wouldn't be a "just thought I'd say hi..." you know. Idk probably just ignore it like I always do. It's nothing to respond to. Like Brotherhood67 said it's useless anyway. What's the point haha! Link to comment
oneheart Posted September 24, 2014 Share Posted September 24, 2014 yeah i think you're making the right move, if she is sorry about what happened, or wanted to make amends, something of that affect she should say more than just thought i'd say hi Link to comment
surfjon Posted September 24, 2014 Share Posted September 24, 2014 Let it go....... If she has any real interest, you'll hear more from her... They get lonely, bored, playful.....whatever........but I wouldn't put much into it.. Plus, if she left you, why on earth would you even want her back or give her another chance to do it again.... Because she will....she will....... Link to comment
Flyer79 Posted September 29, 2014 Share Posted September 29, 2014 Let it go....... If she has any real interest, you'll hear more from her... They get lonely, bored, playful.....whatever........but I wouldn't put much into it.. Plus, if she left you, why on earth would you even want her back or give her another chance to do it again.... Because she will....she will....... Just message her back and say you arn't sure why she contacted you , but respond, be open and say you don't really want to talk to her. Throw it back at her, in my opinion time heals all wounds and don't see the point of holding grudges, unless they hurt in in a way you will never, ever get over. You have nothing to lose by doing that! Link to comment
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