Howsie2228 Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 I always get these terrible gut instincts he's doing something wrong.? And I don't understand y Could he or is it my irrational thinking? Link to comment
faraday Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 Do you feel like this with every partner or this is exclusive to this relationship? What does he do that makes you think he's not committed? Link to comment
Blue92 Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 He is way too overprotective of his phone. Can't go to the bathroom without it or even let you look at pictures or the time on it. It has to be in his sight at all times when he is with you. SHADY. Link to comment
Howsie2228 Posted September 10, 2014 Author Share Posted September 10, 2014 We'll I've caught him out a few times messaging girls Then he just lies about it anyways.... If I don't hear from him I think he's getting use out of someone else... Silly thoughts Link to comment
faraday Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 messaging girls that are friends or messaging women in a way that is sexual? Link to comment
treesandbees Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 Sometimes your gut feeling is your marker for what is true and is why id listen to it, especially if you then find evidence that backs it up on your own or from others around you.. Cheating, he won't introduce you to his female friends, goes out with them day or night and does not include you. Won't answer his phone in your presence, or when you call him won't say love you if he normally would back to you. Acting sneaky for no real reason are a few. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 I take note of men's phone issues. One guy I dated always shielded his phone when he would text. Another (ended up in a LTR with him) always left his phone in the car until one day I told him he ought to start bringing it the house with him, after all he had an 11 year old son at home. Hmmmm? My last relationship he would hand me his phone, tell me his password and ask me to look something up. Comparing these and other men's patterns, I've met there is definitely a sort of spidey sense when something fishy is going on. Trust your gut. Link to comment
reinventmyself Posted September 10, 2014 Share Posted September 10, 2014 oh, I just realized who asked the question. .! OK. . why exactly are you with this man who is causing you so much grief? Link to comment
Howsie2228 Posted September 11, 2014 Author Share Posted September 11, 2014 What do u mean u just looked who asked the question.? Link to comment
treesandbees Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 Has he done anything mentioned in your thread so far, what examples of things he has done can you share? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted September 11, 2014 Share Posted September 11, 2014 As you said in your thread from earlier, "he's lied from the start." If that's the case, do you really think he would own up to cheating? Having said that, it comes down to the lack of trust, which is needed in order to sustain the relationship. Something to think about... Link to comment
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