Nicest way to find out a girls name...

[Doctor Smurf]

Hey all! this is mainly targetted to all of the girls / females out there... What is in your opinion the nicest way for a guy to find out your name? I always feel a bit weird just saying 'Hi, whats your name...'. Or is it better to find out from someone else and then surprise her with it? New phrases appreciated!

Thanx all

Dan

[Gunther]

well, I'm not a girl, but maybe you should say, "Hi, I'm _____" usualy if the woman is interested, she will give you her name. It's just sort of implied said that way.

[sisterlynch]

Try to talk to her like she is a little girl who may be afraid to talk to a stranger...

 

What is your name, by the way? Have we met? I am charlie, and you are? This is done by shaking or extending the hand to shake hands with her.

 

Give her a coy little smile when she looks at you.

[Doctor Smurf]

Aye she is very shy... I dont know why shes 15! Ok Il try one of those... I like the coy smile idea..!! thanks

Dan

[Emmylu]

Do you really need to know her name?

[Kaia]

Or is it better to find out from someone else and then surprise her with it?

 

I would prefer the guy asking me but if you must find it from someone else, continue the conversation by telling her how. I personally would find it freaky if someone just know my name and doesn't have a good reason to .. but that's just me

[sisterlynch]

The history of the story is that he works at a health club and she goes to the club, and he is trying to get to know her better.

 

He needs to find someway to talk to her before he gets to know her.

 

He isn't stalking her, he just wants to know her, by the way they are 14 and 15. The girl is older.

[Tinkerbell]

Well first of all, you should start a conversation with her, and then you could say something along the lines of "I don't think we have ever been properly introduced....My name is _____, what's yours?" or even "By the way, what's your name again?" Asking her casually is always best, whereas finding out from someone else may freak her out a little as Kaia pointed out.

[HajiMaji]

Although im not as formal asn tinkerbell, i think shes got it on the money.

 

I always ask for peoples names straight up. Guys or girls. To be honest i think it makes em feel good when i ask them for thier name. The way in which you say things is more important then the words. Be chill and genuine - thats the money. If a girl (or dude) senses weirdness or sees a sexual eye they quickly turn themselves off.

[SexKittenUSA]

Id ask her for her name. You don't want to seem like youve been stalking her!

[tosing]

Say, "My name is _____________" with your hand extended for a shake. With this she'll give her name when she shakes it. If she doesn't then she's rude. In case this happens, say "What's your's?"

[Kyoshiro Ogari]

Start a casual conversation, make sure you add some humor and when you have to break apart, say, "Sorry, I didn't catch your name." If she says, "That's because I never threw it." then you're screwed, but I doubt she'll do that.

[Doctor Smurf]

GREAT! Thanks all... I had a great chat with her... Shes Hailey.... I hope to see her on Wednesday again and if she seems to be happy with me then I may ask for her mobi number... Im happy now!!

Dan

[corvidae]

That's a nice name. If you ever discover a comet name it after her.