panchala23 Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 The ex sent me a test message earlier saying merry christmas, and I sent the same thing back to her. She called me about an hour ago and I missed the call, should I call her back? I am not sure why should we call again since she already said merry christmas to me. She didn't leave a message, what do you guys think I should do? SHould I call her back or ignore it? Need answer quick! Link to comment
ticklebug Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 panch is this the girl who you have broken up with a few times already and you were trying to do NC with? Don't call her back. You are working on getting over her and things that have happened. Don't help her feel better about hurting you... Link to comment
Ated Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 I agree with ticklebug 100%. Do NOT call back... If she wants to tellu something, she'll call back again... Although i would still not pick up... Link to comment
ocean9 Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 She's got your number. She'll call back if it was important. Let her do the work of contacting you. Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 whether your trying to get over her or get her back, not calling her is the way to go. if you jump at every oppurtunity she will probably think your still there waiting to be with her. Link to comment
Tinkerbell Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 I agree with the above posters, just try to forget about her calling you. Obviously, if she really needs to tell you something she'll contact you again. Link to comment
panchala23 Posted December 26, 2004 Author Share Posted December 26, 2004 Yes this is the same ex that I have broken up with before. I feel kinda cold not calling her back at all. I am also curious to hear what she says. Ever since she called I have been more stressed out tho, about what to do, and why she called and yada yada yada. I don't think it is anything serious or she would have left a message, but why else would she call? This is the woman I love, it is very hard to ignore her phone call. I definitely want her back. If you guys tell me not to answer the call and think that this may help me get her back, then I will do that because I value all of your opinions. What I dont want to do is not call back simply to be vindictive, because I dont believe in that., especially with this girl. Link to comment
titan Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 i wouldn't play games..ie not answering, ignoring...call her back ask what she wanted...be prepared for the standard "just to see how you are"...I don't want to give you wrong impression yadda yadda...Take it how it comes and try to be casual.. If you decide to call back. Link to comment
Protex Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 I agree with everyone else, calling back isn't worth it. Link to comment
Hope75 Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 Panch, I also do not think you should call her back. If you wanted to try NC for a bit you have to give it a fair shot, and like most of the other posters are saying, if she didn't leave a message it's probably not important, and if it is she will call back. Link to comment
ocean9 Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 She didn't care enough to leave a message, so why call her back. It seems like a 'hook' to me. Why bite? Link to comment
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