Flirting

[eviljedi]

Hey, recently I read an article on flirting and I was trying to evaluate if certain girls liked me. Now that I know what to look for its actually really obvious that they are flirting with me. I just wondered, how am I supposed to know if they are just flirting for fun or if they want to take it further?

 

Cheers

eviljedi

[Iceman26]

You find that out by hitting on them after you feel they are flirting with you. Thats how you know young Padawan.

[Finchabald]

im sorry but i dont actually think you can tell unless u talk to them and maybe ask them out sometime.

[Lily04]

I agree. I wondered this as well, but the only way you really know is if you ask them out..

[eviljedi]

Thanks for the replies. The main reason I asked was because sometimes I think girls are just playing with me to see how I react. Do girls do this intentionally?

[Iceman26]

Sometimes they do, and sometimes they dont. The girls I had the longest relationships with were girls that were not good flirts, so go figure.

 

You really won't know until you talk with them and discover the girl's level of interest in you.

[Lily04]

Yeah, and sometimes even then it's hard to tell, so you just have to talk with them some more 'til you know or ask them out & find out. It's tough to tell when some guys/girls are naturally flirty as well, and then you don't know if it's just their personality or if they really like you. So sometimes you just have to take the reins & ask..and if you get rejected, then take it as a learning experience & move on. But generally if you can't find out after one conversation (doing so is quite rare) then just continue striking up conversations and see if she's interested. That's what usually works for me =)

 

G'luck,

 

sparrow

[ticklebug]

...sometimes I think girls are just playing with me to see how I react. Do girls do this intentionally?

 

 

both sexes do it to each other really...

[Coreynwtx]

easy way to find out is try flirting back and depending on there reaction should tell you

[eviljedi]

I don't really know how to flirt, lol

 

How do guys flirt with girls?

[Finchabald]

a smile, a wink. wateva comes comfortable. if you make them laugh it can be a good thing.

[Doctor Smurf]

Flirting is easy!! So long as the girl / subject is open enough for it! Just act like yourself and have a good laugh! Its good practicce even if you get nowhere.

Dan

[corvidae]

Personally I scowl and look miserable, but, for some reason, that never seems to work. Anyway, I wouldn't really take much from anything you read in an article...it's usually rubbish.