ejacobson Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 there is this girl i like in my grade. she is really hot and i think that she is probably out of my league. what do really hot girls look for in guys and do i have a chance without making a fool of myself Link to comment
rubberband_man Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 do you know much about her at all, it is impossible to tell from what info you gave us, every girl is different. Link to comment
adidas7fire Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 I'm no expert in this field but being a chick, I can tell you a few things that I look for in a guy... personality, sense of humor, trust, honesty, compassion, ability to listen and to be listened to (communication is VERY important), and things of this nature. Get to know the girl before jumping ship. Establish a friendship, find out things she is interested in but don't go overboard because it may come accross as being too obsessive. Ultimately, you need to follow your heart and where it leads you -- no one person can say what you should or should not do. I hope this helps and good luck! Link to comment
1strdko Posted December 19, 2004 Share Posted December 19, 2004 Men are like moths, we are attracted to the seductive flame and many times are burned yet we always look for the superficial shell that Does not make a woman a woman. Take time to get to know her. It can start by approaching her a just saying "Hi, my name is _____ what is yours?" Dont pass on the opportunity to meet her and be yourself. I you get the opportunity to hang out with her take the time to ask lots of questions and LISTEN. Keep eye contact and first and formost thank her for the time she gives you and don't ever SMOTHER the girl. If she likes you will feel it if not on the first engagement but soon. If she just wants to just be friends dont get hurt but accept it as an invitation of learning about what makes women special. Good luck! Link to comment
ejacobson Posted December 20, 2004 Author Share Posted December 20, 2004 thank you. i known her for a while, we used to talk all the time in one of our classes last year but haven't since. my friend asked her if she would dance with me she told him that i had a better chance of dancing with my mom. does that mean she just completely hates me or what. Link to comment
Coreynwtx Posted December 25, 2004 Share Posted December 25, 2004 proberbly means one or two things one shes joking or two look for romance elsewere Sory Link to comment
FleX Posted December 26, 2004 Share Posted December 26, 2004 Confidence, mystery, and challenge!!!!! Link to comment
corvidae Posted December 27, 2004 Share Posted December 27, 2004 At that age it's very hard to know what to make of waht goes on in a girls mind. The bad news is as they get older it never gets any better. The good news is one day we might be able to make robot women. That is all. Link to comment
MoMone011 Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 well, i am a 14 y.o. girl, and i think that the best way for a guy to ask me out would be staight foreward. But if she really dislikes you, then maybe you should do something nice for her or show her that you care about her. idk- good luck! Link to comment
99ways2killasuperhero Posted December 28, 2004 Share Posted December 28, 2004 just make some convo. girls dig a guy who is funny, and listens to them. Tease a little. Get her to think, "hey i like this guy" then move in. But you could do it like the other girl said. I mean you dont have anything to lose. If you think shes out of your league, you cant kill yourself for not trying. Live everyday to its fullest Link to comment
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