About a girl, what else?

[Allie Caulfield]

And so anyways, there's this girl in school I've liked for pretty much a year and a half. I'm about as shy as they come. The past few months I've thought she might like me and that she knew I liked her. I really didn't know. She's nice to everybody, but lately not so warm to me, probably because she knows I like her. I've read this website's stuff on body language, like today in class she was talking to a girl behind her with her legs crossed, but the way she was rotated in her seat her legs were pointed right at me. Sometimes I think I see her looking at me and then looking away, but I really don't know. Today we were waiting outside a classroom for the teacher to come (along with the rest of the class) and I always walk around with my hands in my pockets and I noticed she was kind of slouched with her hands in her pockets. It seems like most of the time she tries not to look in my direction. Between two classes at one point in the day I pass her in the hallway; the past week I've worked up the courage to try and make eye contact with her in the hallway but she never ever looks up, even though I think she notices me. Then yesterday I thought I saw her looking at me out of the corner of my eye. I walked out of our last class today and was feeling pretty depressed because it just seemed like she wasn't interested in me today. I went to homeroom and then started walking towards the entrance. I turned a corner and she was ten feet in front of me. My heart either stopped beating or sped up to like 300bpm because I really don't remember what happened, except I got caught up in the surprise of the moment and just stared at her eyes. Right when I passed her she looked up into my eyes, looked down, looked up, and then looked down again. I don't remember but I think her smile was more sardonic than anything.

 

Well, I guess I just wanted to share.

[Jose]

I think she might like you. I was just in a similar situation. Except she ended up being a b***h. Anyways, I think you should try to talk to her even though its soo scary Im shy too. I think we both need to do something about it. Good Luck!

[Allie Caulfield]

I am becoming more and more convinced that she does like me. Her friends are always staring at me. One friend of her's is not in any of my classes and yet she somehow knows I usually finish all my tests long before anyone else. And just like everything else I do, it's coming down to the wire: tomorrow's the last day of school (last exam in the morning) and there's no guarantee I'm going to see her. This sucks. Today she wore her these really nice glasses and pants that make her ass look awesome, and the second exam we had today was the last one I'd see her in before next year. Yet I left the class without even trying to get near her. I'm praying I pass her in the hallway or something. I know now that I have the guts to make extended eye contact.

[bzborow1]

I think all this talk is pointless my man. The bottom line is, why keep beating yourself up over this? You should just find a nice way to ask her out. But don't just go up to her and say, "do you wanna go out?" Perhaps you should just go up to her before class one day and ask her to join you for lunch or something.

 

My whole point on this is. You should ask yourself, "Why not?" As opposed to, "Why?" What's the worst that could happen? She says no thanks and you're left single...just as you are today? There's plenty of great women out there...and this girl may be one of them...but you'll never know until you take a risk.

 

A nice quote.

 

"Winners do things losers don't want to do."