idontunderstan Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 Last night and this morning have been really rough for me I'm so confused I love her so much still, I understand the importance of letting go and giving her what she needs. I've always been a selfish person but I'm giving everything I can to not hold her anymore But on top of all of these feelings, I just keep thinking of why things didnt work and why, if we ever got back together it wouldn't be the same. I think of the moments in the relationship when I wasn't happy and thought of breaking up but was afraid to talk to her about my feelings to find a solution I think that if we ever got back together those issues will arise again But it still doesn't make it any easier to let go of the girl I love. Love hurts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Darcy Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 One day at a time man. Hugs! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twidom Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 Listen to Ms Darcy. She helped me understand a few things about what's going on. One day at a time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JagzOrDaFlash Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 One day at a time brother, one day at a time. For me, it's going to be 3 months in like two weeks and man I never thought it would go from minute at a time to an hour and now days. We have to let go. But you know, we can do this man. Chalk it up to experience as they say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
idontunderstan Posted November 9, 2013 Author Share Posted November 9, 2013 I feel like things would be so much easier if I just knew what she was going through and knew what her feelings were. I would WANT to know if she had met someone, I would WANT to know how she's doing and if she's feelin alright I would WANT to be able for us to just check in and out of a friendship ask how the other is coping That would make things go so much smoother for me I feel like Is that weird to feel that? I feel like being left completely in the dark is so much worse than having something that you can SEE hurting you. If that makes sense Right now idont KNOW what's going on with her and that could be ANYTHING, but the simple fact of me not knowing makes it so much worse than if someone told me she was dating someone else or happy being single. Cause then I'd atleast have a know actuall like real legitimate logical reason to be upset Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhowe Posted November 9, 2013 Share Posted November 9, 2013 So....its still about you and how you feel. NC is best for both parties....knowing what is going on in her life would be much harder. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twidom Posted November 10, 2013 Share Posted November 10, 2013 Trust me knowing if she's with someone else and things like that is not better....Stick with NC and don't look for her. It hurts now, but it'll pass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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