How do you know when you 'like' someone?

[Slow Club]

I've had this problem before and it's kind of frustrating.

 

It's mainly because I'm useless at working out my own emotions.

 

Basically, I can't work out whether I like someone or whether it's just a really friendly like...

 

Any ideas guys?

[daddids]

Not sure whether it is something universal, but for me I know I like someone when I think of her, want to talk to her, grab every opportunity that occurs to be with her, find her funny no matter what.

 

Maybe some of those apply to you, you just dont know it

[Slow Club]

I agree with some of those things. But maybe I just like hanging out with her because I like her as a friend.

 

It's confusing.

[daddids]

If you are not sure then you do not 'like' her ^^

 

For me its crystal clear, not confusing at all.

 

If it is ok for you not to have contact with her for days or weeks, to see her hanging with guy friends, hearing that she likes someone else, not feel the 'need' to hug/kiss her then you are not into her.

[and so it goes]

If you have the feeling that you have to kiss him/her or you will die, then that's when you know you like them.

[Slow Club]

Ok then, I guess I like her then.

 

But sometimes I think I feel that way because I just want to be with someone.

[shellyf62]

If you like someone they occupy your every thought. You cant do anything without them popping into your head. Also you cant sleep, don't want to eat, and smile all the time

Its a pretty nice feeling to have !!!