Going to give another girl a shot need some advice.

[Raptor]

Hi,

Please help:

To short some up of my last few months. July met a really nice girl dated but things fell apart. I went to school and so did she and we were only dating a little before. So I don't think we were close enough for it to last.

 

I asked out another girl whom I work with. She thought the whole thing was just us being friends. I've made it as clear as possible saying things like I'm going to a movie wanna come. She is always busy. Well I still think she likes me cause she has invited me to do things with her alone all on days that I'm busy. Unfortunatley Well I started thinking that this won't work right now and decided to move on.

 

Well about a month ago the place I work hired a new cashier. She is a year younger than me and I just met her a few weeks ago. I am pretty good "work" friends with her best friend. And my friend is also friends with them both. Well latley I started talking to her best friend a lot when she is around and make small talk with her to get to know her better.

 

The problem with where I work it is a pain to talk to somebody alone for a long period of time. When I have been talking to her or her friends she makes eye contact a good bit. Her eyes are amazing BTW I mean its the first time I've ever noticed a girls eyes like this. Kind of freaking me out but you get my point.

 

My friend knows I liker her. He has offered to say something to her for me? Is this a good idea I usually just ask girls out myself but havnt had any luck since I've been about 16. Its getting a little depressing being alone. BTW this guy is a player meaning he dates lots of girls until he finds ones thats right for him. Should I have him help me? Ask her friend?(who I'm also pretty sure likes me or at least she flirts a lot)

 

If I should ask her out girls any ideas on how to do it? I was thinking of something like just saying, "Would it be possible for me to take you out for dinner?" Any other sugestions? My problem is I can flirt I just can't close the deal.

[ticklebug]

why do you need your friend to play middleman? why not get her phone number next time you get a brief conversation time at work so you can talk when you have more time?

 

and just a simple "hey do you want to do something sometime" works wonders.

[Raptor]

what i mean by that is try to find out if she likes me. Since we work together knowing if I'm going to get rejected could help prevent some akwardness. Any more advice? I'm open to options.