Which sex has more pursuers?

[HeatherB]

I think this question must be for single people. There's really no such thing as being pursued, if you aren't giving out any interest yourself. There's being harassed or pestered. But that says more about low social IQ of the pesterer than it does about the desirability of the pesteree.

 

I also think there's way too much emphasis on trying to get people to want you when you have no interest in them. What's the point of that? If you know what you've got, that sort of ego game (which really does hurt others) isn't necessary.