Can't tell his motivations

[oitnb]

So an old friend from highschool recently reconnected with me.

 

He's a good guy and we were like best friends my senior year, but, we flirted a lot. Like to the point were people teased us about it, but neither of us really made a move. We were just friends who happened to flirt 24.7 lol

 

Anyways he's been talking to me today and I missed this guy! He asked me to hangout but idk. I know we could be friends again but I'm not sure if it's a good idea so soon after my bu. am I just thinking to much into this?

[SooSad33]

It's a 'friendship' isn't it? Or are you wanting more than that with him? You didnt say when your bu was?

If you are, then yes, I'd say wait.

 

Usually a person knows (feels) when they feel themselves again after healing from a break up.

[oitnb]

It's a 'friendship' isn't it? Or are you wanting more than that with him? You didnt say when your bu was?

If you are, then yes, I'd say wait.

 

Usually a person knows (feels) when they feel themselves again after healing from a break up.

 

I guess id be lying if I said I would be upset if it turned into more than friends. Idk lol and it's been like three weeks since my bu

[SooSad33]

if you were in a ltr, then i suggest you take a good few months with NOTHING, in order to work on accepting your bu and healing...getting yourself back on 'happy', NOT 'needy'.

 

you dont want to have this guy be a rebound,,right? Why not just talk etc. And signify nothing else for a while.

[oitnb]

if you were in a ltr, then i suggest you take a good few months with NOTHING, in order to work on accepting your bu and healing...getting yourself back on 'happy', NOT 'needy'.

 

you dont want to have this guy be a rebound,,right? Why not just talk etc. And signify nothing else for a while.

 

I mean I wasn't planning on making a move on him or anything. But yeah I see your point!