She said "just not working out"

[mysteryman]

Hey

well let me tell you the story.. i met a girl on icq she was nice we met and started dating.. we met 6 weeks ago been dating for 4.. anyhow sunday she called me and told me our relationship was a lie. that she had lied so much. Anyhow i just called her and said tell me is it yes or no? and she said its just not working out. She said we didnt know each other good enough and maybe we should wait? any tips? i want her back lol.. i didnt wanta loose her.. see we go to different schools.

Anyhow thanks and all comments will be appreciated

Bye

Mysteryman

[rnorth]

There are so many motivations to break up and I think she is trying to let you down easy while hiding her true motivation.

 

I think it is just as well to let it be and act like you don't care. In fact if you do this, you will immediately plant a question in her head as to why you are taking it so well. Leave things be as if you pursue this at this time, you may learn something that may only cause you more hurt.

 

My heart goes out to you.

[San123]

I agree with rnorth...

[mysteryman]

truthfully i want her back but im not crying or anything... im not really sad lol.. know what i mean? in the words of Austin Powers " wait a tic I'm single again" lol

[rnorth]

Good for you.

 

Remember, being strong and confident for yourself if the most attractive trait you can have. Sounds like you have things under control.

 

By the way, are you German? Your English is excellent if so. Of course, it seems like all young adults know English fairly well in Germany.

[mysteryman]

lol i just love germany.. i live in virginia im trying to throw people off but shhhh you didnt hear that from me lol.. yah but theres another girl that i think likes me and i tinhk i like her so maybe this isall for the best? lol

[Phoenix Down]

Hey, where in germany are you? I lived in baumholder for about 4 years

then moved to italy. I'm die'n to go back. I miss europe so much. I've been in the US for about 7 years, I like it. But my home is overseas.

[Phoenix Down]

oops just cought that. Good one.

[mysteryman]

lol yah i do hope to go there one day.. and am getting ready to start learning the language lol but i just put that lol

[Phoenix Down]

Well good luck man, you'll love it. It's strange tho. I dont hear a lot of people say the "love" germany with out being there. What got you so intrested?

[mysteryman]

uhh its history and stuff i mean i just got really interested into it and it is a unique country and im part german plus my dad and grandfather like it my frandfather went there as mp after the war and i guess i just like the place lol

[Phoenix Down]

Thats cool man, You should go sometime and check it out. I was born in frankfurt. But we are from italy.

[mysteryman]

oh cool.. how did u like it there? and how did u end up in the states?

[Phoenix Down]

My parents worked for the government so I lived all over europe and asia.

I'm american, I came back here to go to school. The whole time I was over seas all I wanted was to come back to the us and live but now that I'm here I wanna go back so badly. I like it here and everything, but the people are strange. It's hard to find original people here. Every ones chasing an image or trying to be like every one else. I cant say that for every one I've met, but somethings just a miss here, not sure what it is.

[acts12]

all this talk about Germany is nice...................

 

Has anybody told this kid to move on from this chick and find somebody worth his time yet? lol

[mysteryman]

oh thats cool.. were they diplomats?

and they've basically told me to go on and im a teenager not a kid lol.. and besides it was a good convo lol.

 

 

Mysteryman