jd21 Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 I posted a little while ago about my boyfriend and I having sex for the first time and how it hurt so he had to stop. My question is, am I still a virgin? He went in me but never finished, so does that mean we actually had sex? I just wanted to know what you all thought. Link to comment
maynards_razorblade69 Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 No you're not Link to comment
arwen Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 Technically, you are not a virgin anymore. However, I think for the two of you emotionally you will regard the first time for real, when you can finish the job so to say. When I started having sex, I was 20 and with my first true love. It kept hurting until the 10th time or so. Link to comment
gersanos Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 Any penetration, no matter how slight, is intercourse. A man can push in and pull out, and leave it at that, and it is considered sex. But definitely on the emotional level, the job has to be finished. Link to comment
Amethyst Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 You answered your own question: I posted a little while ago about my boyfriend and I having sex for the first time and how it hurt so he had to stop. A virgin is someone who has never had sex. By your own admission, you HAVE had sex; thereforeeee, it follows that you are not a virgin. Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 I think that if you want to get technical you are still a virgin. However, some people say that even when 2 women get together and have oral that's sex. It just depends on what your definition of sex is. I guess you are probably referring to vaginal sex and since that's the case you already answered your own question and you are not a virgin, but you need to finish the job emotionally, as everyone said. Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 regardless..this might sound odd...but i reccomend you have sex with him (if your committed to him and i assume you are) so later on you will have no confusion about who your "first" was. Link to comment
Amethyst Posted November 21, 2004 Share Posted November 21, 2004 regardless..this might sound odd...but i reccomend you have sex with him (if your committed to him and i assume you are) so later on you will have no confusion about who your "first" was. If she's not ready, she's not ready -- end of story. She should not have sex just so she can say she had it. Link to comment
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