El3216 Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 When she leaves should I just stay away? Should I offer to help? I still love her and what this space to help us in the future. I have been avoiding her as much as I can and we basic say hi/bye when we cross paths. No conversation out side of that. I have to sit on my hands to avoid texting her during the day. I know I won't get the responses I'm looking for at this point. She said she needs space so I've done a good job of providing that. Link to comment
LookandLeap Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 Don't help her move out. If you don't have to be there, then just leave. Otherwise, sit and watch tv. Do not help her even if she is really struggling or if she asks you to help her. Link to comment
testcase Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 I wasn't there when my ex moved out. Just watch out. She may take a lot of the stuff you thought was both of yours! That kind of stuff happens after a long time together. If you're there though it may be too hard. Link to comment
LookandLeap Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 I wasn't there when my ex moved out. Just watch out. She may take a lot of the stuff you thought was both of yours! That kind of stuff happens after a long time together. If you're there though it may be too hard. This is good advice. You should make sure you're there to stop her from taking your things. Still don't help her though. Link to comment
El3216 Posted April 16, 2013 Author Share Posted April 16, 2013 This is good advice. You should make sure you're there to stop her from taking your things. Still don't help her though. Yeah we've already divided up the furniture we got together and stuff. I don't really care what she takes honestly. The more things that leave the apartment that remind me of her the better. Link to comment
LookandLeap Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 It's settled then. Just don't acknowledge her. No teary goodbye's. Nothing. Link to comment
El3216 Posted April 16, 2013 Author Share Posted April 16, 2013 Yeah that's kind of how I was imagining it at first. But with how we have backed off from each other emotionally for the last 3 weeks I think it's better just to continue on that path. I'm alot better then I was before but boy do I wish there was a way for us to just stop and figure it out I'm not ready to move on yet, but I've B&E making huge progress in bettering myself a little every day. Link to comment
DN Posted April 16, 2013 Share Posted April 16, 2013 If I were you I would find something to do elsewhere until she has left. Link to comment
El3216 Posted April 16, 2013 Author Share Posted April 16, 2013 I am going to sleep at a friends Friday and go strait to work Saturday so I will not be around at all. Thank you all for the responses. Link to comment
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