I need someone to talk to!

[animal_sheep_lover]

OK, my friend cut herself at school in the bathroom. Someone told on her and she gave me a note to give to the person who was giving her razors. I didnt know the person so I opened it. I told about the note and now she is extremely pissed off. I just want someone to talk to about this.

[xbox_modding_freak]

Well she shouldn't be since you did that for her own good. Find this person who is giving razors and alert someone

 

-XmF

[Jaiex]

Listen, what you did was the right thing to do, but your friend still has reason to be angry at you. She trusted you with that note and you betrayed her trust. Eventually, if she doesn't start cutting herself again, she'll probably forgive you.

[animal_sheep_lover]

I already told someone

[thisisnotanexit]

good, you did the right thing. she'll get over it, and if not, hey, at least you helped her. continue to be there for her since she must be going through a pretty rough time. just anything you can do to stop her from hurting herself. take care and check out this website

 

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[arwen]

You did the right thing. You are 15 years old, you are in school and if you want to help her, talk to the school dean. He/she can talk to your friend about it by asking it indirectly. Don't worry about warning someone at school. It's not a weight you should carry by your own.

 

I am 24 years old and have 2 friends that cut themselves. I am almost 10 years your senior and dealt with a lot of personal problems myself, but the cutting is something I can't handle. Your friend needs professional help.

 

good luck,

 

Ilse.

[unexpectedvictim57]

ummmm..................... where do you live cause i need razors....... and anyways i dont think you should have told, its cruel and betrayal....... how would you like it........ sorry for being rude, but how could you be such a effin tattletale?

[avman]

Because she cared enough about someone to do what was in their best interest. Everyone should have a friend like that.

[unexpectedvictim57]

noooooooo......... everyone should have friends that they can trust that will not tell everyone about a little problem or something they feel.......if she cared she woud'vetried to help herslef without getting anyone they did noot approve of into it..... its like telling the cops about your friend who has weed or something......... not cool

[animal_sheep_lover]

thanks 4 ur posts. My friend isn't mad at me anymore but she got expeled from school and I haven't seen her in about a month. but at leaste I can still see her. she tried to kill herself and I dont know how I would deal with that if she went through with that. thanks again...bye

[thisisnotanexit]

well, just stay with her. she needs a friend right now and just do all that you can do to help her. if telling someone is necessary, do it. you've got let her know she can get through this and you'll be right there with her through it all. take care and visit this for support

 

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