wlh22 Posted March 10, 2013 Share Posted March 10, 2013 Hi all, I met a girl at an event last night. I must say I was really really attracted to her... one of the very few girls that I have recently felt a strong attraction for. Its not really in my favor because I know only her name and that she lives in my area. I didn't get a chance to get her number. Also, when I was talking to her, it felt a bit one-sided on top of it, I saw her talking to this guy for a long time. I know I am being silly but I found her on Facebook. Should I send her a message saying I didn't get a chance to get her number but would like to ... or something like that. Geez. I am acting like I am 20... but really, I haven't felt that kind of attraction in a while... Any tips? Link to comment
bibliophile01 Posted March 10, 2013 Share Posted March 10, 2013 If you're really attracted to her, send her a message, get to know her more, ask for her number. Just be yourself. Link to comment
microha65 Posted March 10, 2013 Share Posted March 10, 2013 It's simple, doing nothing will result in nothing. Send her a message, ask for her number, or whatever. But DO SOMETHING, otherwise nothing will happen and you'll never have an answer to that "what if" question you'll get later. Link to comment
CeeLambrini Posted March 10, 2013 Share Posted March 10, 2013 Do you have any mutual friends with her? If so then go for it. If you don't, still go for it - I just know that a while back when facebook went through yet another change, it automatically changed peoples settings so that if they got a message from someone they didn't have any mutual friends with then it went straight to the "other" box... at least that's what happened to mine. I agree with microha65, doing nothing will result in nothing so you don't have anything to lose. Link to comment
wlh22 Posted March 11, 2013 Author Share Posted March 11, 2013 agreed. I will certainly send a message! I kinda got a feeling from talking to her that she wasn't very interested (signs wise) but will see.... Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 agreed. I will certainly send a message! I kinda got a feeling from talking to her that she wasn't very interested (signs wise) but will see.... So then it was an attraction based on her looks and not based on a mutual chemistry. Too bad ... Link to comment
Klokwurk Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 Dude, if she wasn't giving signs, forget her. Link to comment
Romanticism Posted March 11, 2013 Share Posted March 11, 2013 It's simple, doing nothing will result in nothing. Send her a message, ask for her number, or whatever. But DO SOMETHING, otherwise nothing will happen and you'll never have an answer to that "what if" question you'll get later. Good advice, I personally like to put the ball in their court. I don't like to deal with what ifs or regrets, so I will go out of my way to make sure I do what I want to do. You never know if you never try Link to comment
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