TopFive Posted February 27, 2013 Share Posted February 27, 2013 Today I had orientation for the job that I told you guys about. I had it at another casino and low and behold....the exes bf works there. Even though he and i had a chat a the bar a couple weeks ago and we're "cool", I still scratch my head at how fast she moved on, but whatever! Forget about me. I came on here earlier and I've read some of your stories. I just wanted to say that I feel for you and even though I don't know you, i feel like we all have a strong connection because we've been hurt. I just want to tell you guys that no matter how many distractions you have and how much working out,having sex with new people etc... Nothing will ease the pain except TIME. You don't want to read that, but it's the truth. There was a time when I couldn't function without being drink or watchin Supernatural. Now, I'm having the time of my life losing weight, partying with friends and pleasing my new woman. It took me 8 months to get to that point, but i'm better now. The ony true healer is time. It sucks, it hurts and you wanna die sometimes, but only time will heal that deep wound you have. Love you all! Take care. Link to comment
LikeWater Posted February 27, 2013 Share Posted February 27, 2013 Very nice of you to stop by just to extend some sympathies. I love ya back! And I hope everything continues to go your way, TopFive. Link to comment
Tom1990 Posted February 27, 2013 Share Posted February 27, 2013 Thanks, Top Five. Keep on moving on! Link to comment
ErikSifu Posted February 27, 2013 Share Posted February 27, 2013 man its just over 7 months for me and reading your post gives me hope ..... COME ON TIME !!!! Link to comment
TopFive Posted February 28, 2013 Author Share Posted February 28, 2013 I never believed it would get better, but it did. Link to comment
surfjon Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Folks....Time is key, and patience.... It's true, I came here 2007 after my wife of 20 years bailed, took me a solid year to even begin to heal, much less try to move on..... It took really about 4 years to not think about her every day and I still missed her dearly. I'm a bit over 5 years out now, and feelin really good!! She called me yesterday in tears, told me she regretted leaving and not trying to fix things, told me she is with an alcoholic and thinking of leaving him. I always thought if I got that call, I'd feel good.....but I just felt so sad for her is all.... What could I say? I've moved on finally. Peace to all who suffer.... Link to comment
sportsguy9981 Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 Congradulations for moving on, were you in No Contact most of the time? Ive been in No Contact since day 2 and I think that I'm doing myself a favor. Link to comment
John John Posted February 28, 2013 Share Posted February 28, 2013 High five to TopFive! I am very happy to hear you are doing so well! It's been 3.5 months since my breakup, and 7 weeks of NC. I'm actually totally fine living in the apartment we used to live in. I got new furniture, painted and everything. I find my hardest times are in the mornings and at night when I'm in bed. But it's getting a little easier day by day. I still miss her like crazy and want to break NC every day to see where her mind is at (I still would be open to reconciling with her), but I'm hitting the gym really hard (I'm going to ripped!) and focusing on work and school. I'm not a patient person (never have been), but your story gives me hope, and you actually just helped me. Thank you. Link to comment
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