Doodle007 Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 Do you guys really believe a guy can be in a relationship with a virgin girl...without having sex and still be faithful? Link to comment
Doodle007 Posted February 21, 2013 Author Share Posted February 21, 2013 Like my previous post, he flirts around wouldnt that lead to temptation that he might act upon? Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 I don't know what other post you're talking about, but a guy flirting is a guy trying to have sex or get into a relationship with a girl. There's no other reason to do it, so if that's what's going on, yeah, it will be acted upon at some point. But that has nothing to do with dating a virgin, it's just something that dishonest cheaters do. Link to comment
Iamstruggling Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 If you love the girl you wouldn't be asking this. Link to comment
Furbys Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 Yes it is possible. However, reading your previous posts i think you don't trust your partner, which is totally understandable as he has been messaging other girls. There is no need to ask questions like you have here, you don't trust him. Link to comment
LonelyGirl10 Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 I think it depends on the guy Link to comment
DN Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 Yes, it is possible but if someone has had relationships involving sex before, it is less likely that a sex-free relationship will last, particularly if it is likely to be of some longish duration. And of one partner suddenly decides to make it sexless having previously had sex, or if they have had sex with previous partners, that too is likely to be problematic. It's all very romantic to say that if someone loves their partner, they will wait but in reality sexual frustration can erode love fairly quickly. Link to comment
Tom1990 Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 It definitely depends on the guy. I don't need sex to define my committments. Also, flirtation isn't always a tool for instigating sexual intercourse. Sometimes it's just for "fun". I put "fun" in quotes because it's often practice for the "real thing", like most playful activities (sports, word games, etc). Link to comment
EssexMan Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 Of course he can. It may depend if sex is off the cards permanently (in which case the temptation to rationalise cheating as "not really cheating" may be very strong), or just for now (in which case he may well be prepared to wait for her). Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted February 21, 2013 Share Posted February 21, 2013 I think it takes a certain guy to do that but it is possible. Link to comment
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