Redabc123 Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 I have posted here many times for relationship problems and i just have to say everyone on here gave me great advice i should have followed because this was the end result to my relationdhip here is my story, i need some advice on how to heal, I broke up with him a little over a month ago because he wasn't putting effort into the relationship and other things, we began talking a week later. Everything was ok, we talked about taking steps to improve our relationship, then about 2 weeks ago he started being werid no contacting me as much so I pulled away, he started contacting me again, then told me finiancinally he wasn't stable enough to be with anyone, he had trouble putting him self first as it is, and he was stressed. I wrote him a letter 4 days after for valentines day telling him I'm here for him and I care for him, he didnt even call me the next day and wish me a happy valentines day instead he blamed me for him failing a paper I helped him with told me he was stressed out and that I was phony for not putting more effort into the paper, he then told me wanted to be left lone. I'm not hurt confused and low and need some advice on how to get over this. Thank you in advance Link to comment
kz91 Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 If he wants to be alone, then just leave him alone. He may need some space, give him that. Link to comment
Redabc123 Posted February 17, 2013 Author Share Posted February 17, 2013 If he wants to be alone, then just leave him alone. He may need some space, give him that. I am but it hurts that he even said that,any suggestions on how to get through the situation naturally I want to talk to him. Link to comment
kz91 Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 I am but it hurts that he even said that,any suggestions on how to get through the situation naturally I want to talk to him. You could try saying to him that you care too much about him to leave him alone. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted February 17, 2013 Share Posted February 17, 2013 He sounds as though he's feeling suffocated, so trying to get through to talk with him is the opposite of what would be wise to do. I'd leave him alone and devote myself to developing interests in things beyond HIM. (Hint: if you don't have any, that's likely the problem.) Link to comment
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