ayekasong Posted November 8, 2004 Share Posted November 8, 2004 Hello again everyone. This time I'd like to ask your opinion on a question regarding my sister. This morning, she sent me a message saying she had news from her boyfriend that she was concerned about. To make this less confusing, I'll use fake names. My sister ("Carla") got a call from her boyfriend ("Aaron") and he needed to talk to her about something. Apparently one of Aaron's ex-girlfriends ("Barbara") is living with her boyfriend ("Dan"). Dan is going off to bootcamp. Right now, Dan pays for the rent. However, when Dan leaves for bootcamp, Barbara will have nowhere to stay. Aaron's father suggested that Barbara come live with them while Dan is away at bootcamp. If that was too confusing to follow, my sister's boyfriend might have his ex move in with him. My sister is, rightly so, extremely uncomfortable with this. I have no idea how Dan feels about this, but I would guess he's not cool with the idea. My sister asked me what she should do. I told her that if she had made her feelings clear, there was nothing more she could do. Since she is away at college, she really has no choice in the matter. I personally find it a bit hard to believe that Barbara has no other friends or family she could stay with... my sister heard that you get a monthly salary in the (US) military, so she doesn't understand why Dan can't send money home to pay for the rent. Any thoughts or suggestions for my sister? I thought I could use some other opinions on this situation. Thanks for reading. Quote Link to comment
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