Angele Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 months. We text back and forth every day. For the past couple of weeks, I have seen him every day. Last weekend, we got together Friday evening and I didn't go back home unil Sunday afternoon. We almost slept together, but he got nervous since we are both virgins. I asked him if he was seeing anyone else, and he said "No, why would I need to when I have you?" I'm 25 and he's 27. Does it sound like he's my boyfriend? I just don't know what to say when my friends and family ask me if he's my boyfriend. My last relationship started in highschool so I don't have dating experience as an adult. Thanks for any advice! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrlee123 Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 I think it does lol he just needs to get the guts to make it official and ask you... or for you to ask him what you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikNomis Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 His answer sounds pretty exclusive to me. I think at this point there'd be nothing wrong with asking him for clarity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 You guys are exclusively dating. Some people don't call eachother "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" for a little while. Does it matter to you? After all, its only been 4 weeks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 If friends ask "I have been seeing a nice guy for a couple weeks now." don't rush things just to give them an asnwer. That's all they need to know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MJWasHere Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 Why dont you just ask him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Klokwurk Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 Sounds like he wants to be your boyfriend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
m8check Posted February 8, 2013 Share Posted February 8, 2013 I think it's mutual understanding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Imtheretoo Posted February 9, 2013 Share Posted February 9, 2013 I think the only time you have place labels is when you're introducing someone. But to clarify, 2 months is a decent amount of time, and he's obviously not seeing anyone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherry009 Posted February 10, 2013 Share Posted February 10, 2013 I have learnt that men think differently to women when it comes to status' . Ask him and dont assume, i assumed for 4 months and it turned out he saw me as a casual date and didnt invest any feelings into me. I have learnt from the past to ask. Just ask him what he wants to happen out of 'us' and ask him if ur both on the same page. 2 months is a good time to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted February 10, 2013 Share Posted February 10, 2013 I have learnt that men think differently to women when it comes to status' . Ask him and dont assume, i assumed for 4 months and it turned out he saw me as a casual date and didnt invest any feelings into me. I have learnt from the past to ask. Just ask him what he wants to happen out of 'us' and ask him if ur both on the same page. 2 months is a good time to do it. I agree with asking and the timing. In all my serious relationships I never had to ask and we usually had the conversation within a month or so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vaglar Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 Do you walk hand in hand? Do you hug each other, kiss on the mouth/cheeks? If so, yes you are BF/GF even if no one said it. You may be both shy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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