pumpkinmoon Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 I am sure you are all familiar with that saying. Just a quick question really... Do men think any less of their gf if they agree to be more experimental in the bedroom? Link to comment
FYI Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 I am sure you are all familiar with that saying. Just a quick question really... Do men think any less of their gf if they agree to be more experimental in the bedroom? Are you kidding? Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 Are you kidding? No not at all lol Link to comment
BrianH46 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 No I would not find think less of my gf if she was experimental in bed, I have a very high sex drive and it usually rubs off on them. Link to comment
shellyf62 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Most boyfriends want their girlfriends to be like this. Experimenting is fun & keeps the spark in the relationship. Maybe ask your bf if there is anything he would like to try. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Do you really want to be with a man who asks you to be more experimental.... and then judges you for it?? sounds like a jerk if that's the case! Link to comment
jordesse Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Do you really want to be with a man who asks you to be more experimental.... and then judges you for it?? sounds like a jerk if that's the case! You are joking? Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 No I am not joking. I don't think double standards are cool. Link to comment
jordesse Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 No I am not joking. I don't think double standards are cool. Sorry, I can't see where she's talking about her own boyfriend or where it says he does think less of her? I doubt a man would ask a woman to be more experimental in bed and then think less of her for it, otherwise he wouldn't have asked in the first place. Usually a man has already visualised certain acts with a woman before they're performed lol Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Not that she is talking about her own boyfriend. But I still stand by what I said - if there is a guy who asks his gf to do XYZ, then finds himself thinking that she is a (*&*^% as a result, I don't think that is a guy worth holding onto. Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted February 5, 2013 Author Share Posted February 5, 2013 Sorry for any confusion. It was just a general question. It wasn't to do with my boyfriend saying that he thought less of me. I was just wondering if men do when you agree to try things or usually do things that are a little out of the ordinary. Link to comment
annie24 Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 I would be interested to see what th guys say but like anything, I'm sure there will be a range of responses. I'm sure some guys will think they are so lucky to have an adventurous gf. I'm sure others might like it in the moment but then get insecure wondering what other guys she did X with. And I'm sure some others too might not view her as "marriage material" anymore. Link to comment
LillyLooWho Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Not that she is talking about her own boyfriend. But I still stand by what I said - if there is a guy who asks his gf to do XYZ, then finds himself thinking that she is a (*&*^% as a result, I don't think that is a guy worth holding onto. Unfortunately that DOES happen, although usually less and less as you get older fortunately. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 Sorry for any confusion. It was just a general question. It wasn't to do with my boyfriend saying that he thought less of me. I was just wondering if men do when you agree to try things or usually do things that are a little out of the ordinary. Depends on the guy. Like women, some are more resevered in what they like/want/enjoy in the bedroom. I think like anything, communicating what you both are interested in is the key. As for me, I prefer a woman that is more willing to explore whats enjoyable for each other and I dont think any less of them for it. Link to comment
quirky Posted February 5, 2013 Share Posted February 5, 2013 I think it depends on the guy. It can scare some men off, depending on their confidence and experience. Link to comment
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