bored Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 i been readin bunch of post and i gotta tell u alot of you are NOT in love...ur just over obessed, too focused on the idea of love, afraid of being alone and scared you wont find anyone else. here's a article i read that i think would help those guys who are just over obsessed wid a girl and feelin like [PROFANITY REMOVED BY MODERATOR] cause it dosent seem like she feels the same When you let yourself fall into the "obsession" trap, you begin to analyze everything your dream girl does, every word she says, every move she makes... and try to relate them all to you. She smiled at you - she didn't smile at you. She emailed you - she didn't email you. She returned your call - she didn't return your call. Confusion, frustration, and anxiety result. This obsession with her behaviors and their meanings will paralyze you, confuse you, and suck every ounce of confidence you have from your body. You will become a Blithering Blob of Insecurity. When u dont feel like your gettin the same amount love in return you will get frustrated, resentful, start arguments and kill the relationship. i been through the exact same thing but i dont wanna waste your time on my story couple tips a) dont take your friends for grantd when ur in a relationship, cause they usually dont last b) if someone ask you what do you love about that person and u cant come up with atleast 5 things ur better off with someone else c)If ur gf/bf really loves you, they'll be good to you (so stop making excuses for them... you're only making it for yourself) thats all for now folks...i think i killed enough time on this post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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