ejacobson Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 to day while i went past a table of 9th graders on the way to lunch, i am an 8th grader. any way, i passed this 9th grade girl and she touches my shoulder and say that i am hot. then, while i'm waiting in line for luch, this girl comes up to me and asks me if i will go to the dance with her friend. i asked her who her friend was and she told me. i said maybe. what should i do? i don't who she or what she is like, and i only have a vague idea what she looks like. should i say yes and see where this might go? Link to comment
Scout Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Ask the girl to introduce you to her friend. Be pleasant and friendly, and try to have a conversation with the girl without her friend hovering around. I think it's sweet that someone has a crush on you, but is too shy to say so. But ultimately, only go with her to the dance if you think she's nice and likeable. Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Did you already have someone in mind for the dance? If not you should go with this girl. Talk to her in person before the dance though or else you might feel akward at the dance. You might come to really like this girl. Link to comment
novabateman Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 Try getting this girls phone number. She should give it to you if she likes you. Get to know her and get past this shy thing or this dance could be quite akward getting past the ice. This will only make your experience at the dance worth while. Link to comment
Gauchori Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 Like Scout said... try to make the girl introduce you her friend. And about the phone number... I'll say I'd like better her E-Mail. Anyways... try to have a friendly talk with her, try to get to know her a bit. It will be a shock if you just go on a dance with some1 you never talked to woul't it? -Just my opinion Link to comment
ejacobson Posted October 20, 2004 Author Share Posted October 20, 2004 ok, but, the weird thing is that i'm in 8th grade and she is in 9th grade. will that be any problem. Link to comment
ejacobson Posted October 20, 2004 Author Share Posted October 20, 2004 also, if i get asked to go the dance again, should i say yes, or should i say something about meeting her first and talking? thanks a mill Link to comment
Gauchori Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 I'll say something like... If you want me to go to a dance with your friend, I gotta meet her first.... gtg now, cya Link to comment
ejacobson Posted October 21, 2004 Author Share Posted October 21, 2004 but what about the grade diferance? where i live, the rule basically is, if your lower grade than someone, your are crap. like i said before, she is in 9th and i'm in 8th Link to comment
Gauchori Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 oh commun! I have seen some eighth graders going with some seven grader boys... besides, if you like her, that wouln't matter.... At list to me it wouln't. Take that chance, go for it see how it goes. You have nothing to loose other than some time... But I think you'll enjoy it. Link to comment
ejacobson Posted November 1, 2004 Author Share Posted November 1, 2004 i went to the dance on friday. i asked her to dance and she said yes. we slow danced. i think this will work out well. at first it scared me, but now i know she is really nnice. thanks for all the advice Link to comment
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