when to pop the question?

[John_Simons]

Hey guys

 

i don't know if i should pop the question to this girl i like... i am certain that she likes me but because i've had a crush on her for almost a year i'm scared to make a move... i don't want to scare her off because she means a lot to me. i think she's starting to like me because we been hanging out a bit lately (in the last week a two), i don't know if i should confront her or just let it happen... because i'm scared that it might not. but i can tell she likes me now... am i taking this too fast? should i sit in the slow-mo for a while yet?

[ComputerGuy]

I hope you mean ask her out and not propose.....

[Mesmer]

Aye...just ask her if she would be interested in going out on a date.

[ComputerGuy]

OK, now we've cleared that one up......LOL

 

I say when you feel ready to ask her out, just do it. There really isn't a set time limit on these things....pretty much you make it up as you go. Only she knows whether it 's too early for her or not, so I say go for it whenever you're ready.....no point trying to figure out if she is, you'll only drive yourself insane and it still wont be a certainty.

 

Personally I'd wait another 2 weeks or so, but it's purely up to you...good luck

[CarterJonas]

I agree with the above posts. With dating there are no guarantees and there is always an element of risk. Of course you can reduce these risks by analysing her behaviour towards you. Is she flirty, touchy, jokey? If so these are positive signs so go for it and ask her on a date?