darkaubrey Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 I have a friend that is one of those people you can't tell what he likes. I have noticed that he has no problem with gay people, but he wont tell me if he likes girls or boys.... Link to comment
darkaubrey Posted September 29, 2004 Author Share Posted September 29, 2004 Sry bout that, what are some good questions i can ask him?, ones that can really give you a yes or no answer. I am gay, and i think he is, but i dont know how to tell for sure Link to comment
under_the_pressure Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Since you two are friends maybe just ask him straight out. Has he been with girls in the past? under* Link to comment
darkaubrey Posted September 29, 2004 Author Share Posted September 29, 2004 I have asked him straight out, he wont answer. If i say stuff like, well corny stuff like penis, or vagina "i just say them to be dumb", he turns all pink. There arent any questions, or signs to tell if he is? Link to comment
i_hate_the_world47 Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Well,since you two are friends try just asking him.Or try starting a convo and ease your way into the subject. ~Meagan~ Link to comment
raccoon Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Most straight guys will immediately tell you they're straight. If he didn't, then he's probably not comfortable with his sexuality yet. Link to comment
darkaubrey Posted September 29, 2004 Author Share Posted September 29, 2004 As i said, i have already asked him that question, and when i get on the subject he acts like, i dunno, he just turns pink, i dont know why he does that when he hears the word sex Link to comment
under_the_pressure Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 Yeah, so he may either be gay or bi. But I don't think with the signs he is straight. under* Link to comment
darkaubrey Posted September 29, 2004 Author Share Posted September 29, 2004 Thanks, that helped alot. I still would like to know if there are any signs to tell, or questions, either way is fine with me. Link to comment
bored Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 wat do u care if hes gay or not...if my friend was gay i couldnt care less Link to comment
Cadence308 Posted September 29, 2004 Share Posted September 29, 2004 You could start a conversation with your friend that is somewhat impersonal like try talking about the news like the war in Iraq and see what he thinks about that. Then after talking about it for a while bring up something that has been in the news recently involving someone that was gay like that Senator from New Jersey who was leading a double life or about gay marriages and if they should be legal in the U.S. and then see what he says. He sounds like he might not be comfortable with his sexuality yet. Link to comment
darkaubrey Posted September 29, 2004 Author Share Posted September 29, 2004 will do, thanx alot. Link to comment
jamesy1234 Posted September 30, 2004 Share Posted September 30, 2004 dont know !!!! does he have a girlfriend ? does he show any interest in girls ? if so is it sexual or does he act like one of them ? People say that action speaks louder than words. So dont just listen to words look for actions. If he wont say, what can you do ??? Link to comment
darkaubrey Posted September 30, 2004 Author Share Posted September 30, 2004 No, he has never had a girl friend. Yes, he acts like he isnt interested in men or woman. its really confusing. I guess there is nothing i can do Link to comment
under_the_pressure Posted October 1, 2004 Share Posted October 1, 2004 I guess you are just going to have to wait until he 'comes out' with the truth. Good luck with patience. under* Link to comment
jbonner Posted October 1, 2004 Share Posted October 1, 2004 I have feelings my boyfriend is gay or atleat bi...is there any ways to tell? Link to comment
darkaubrey Posted October 1, 2004 Author Share Posted October 1, 2004 You need to say why, but i can ask you some questions. Do ya'll kiss?, if so do you think he is enjoying it?, what is making you think he is gay, or bi, you need to say that at least so someone can give you advice on it. Link to comment
jamesy1234 Posted October 1, 2004 Share Posted October 1, 2004 why dont you just try to snog him and see what happens , or get him to spend the night, and see what gives, or buy a girlie book and see if he likes it. Maybe this is just the stage of life you are at, maybe things will change ?? Link to comment
SamWiseUp Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 Sry bout that, what are some good questions i can ask him?, ones that can really give you a yes or no answer. I am gay, and i think he is, but i dont know how to tell for sure Hey, I'm in a similar boat. I can't figure out this guy (and I like him). Anyway, I think some guys are afraid of rejection, so they maintain control of the situation by keeping it ambiguous. You might be able to learn about him by asking him about past relationships. Does he know your gay? Sometime when you're out together, you can mention an attractive girl and see what he says and whether he looks etc. It's hard to ask someone right out if they're gay, because they may very well lie thinking they need to take the defensive. Hope this helps. I don't always know how to proceed either. I've tried my own above advice in my current situation, and I'm still not sure. SamWiseUp Link to comment
jbonner Posted October 5, 2004 Share Posted October 5, 2004 Here the thing my boyfriend and I have been together since I was 13 on and off and together from the time I was 17 till now, two babies, suspost to get married in November but he just called in off......ok but he shaves his legs, ass, chest, private areas, trims arms and arm pitts, uses didlos and vibs on himself (won't let me do it too him) and just started to watch gay porn. I ask him if he is gay or bi and he tells me no....this all started 6 months ago and in that time we have had sex once Link to comment
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