jbonner

Never mind...but thanks for all the help. All my questions were answered on Monday night when I came home from work early and he was sleeping with another guy. Needless to say I just spent all day moving.

Here the thing my boyfriend and I have been together since I was 13 on and off and together from the time I was 17 till now, two babies, suspost to get married in November but he just called in off......ok but he shaves his legs, ass, chest, private areas, trims arms and arm pitts, uses didlos and vibs on himself (won't let me do it too him) and just started to watch gay porn. I ask him if he is gay or bi and he tells me no....this all started 6 months ago and in that time we have had sex once

I'm so confused and hurt, and really no longer know what to do

See and i keep tring to talk to him and he won't then on Sat he just bought a 10 inch dildo and rented porn (just men in the video) and locked me out of the bedroom

I've tried to plenty of times, and he refuses to talk to me. he will tell me something like its nothing, or he's just streeed out, nothing is wrong, but we were susposted to get married in November and 3 months ago to called it off. I'm just so confused and don't know what to do. I love him but I will not be with him if he is not straight, that's just something I'm not into.

I have feelings my boyfriend is gay or atleat bi...is there any ways to tell?

I don't know ......maybe but another thing is since he started with this we never do anything, I believe in the last 6 months we have had sex once

Yes but he doesn't want me to do anything with him there, he only does it to himself.

Hi! I just need to know other's thoughts. Is it normal for a straight man to use vibs on himself (anal) and also to shave his legs, or is this gay behaviour?