jecht Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 hi there is a girl i like and she is going out with another boy and i have like this girl for awile and we are pretty good friends i want to as her out but i'm not sure if i should or not what do u think i should do can somebody help me [-o Link to comment
G-Master Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 o god atleast you know she has a boyfriend you have to really impress her to make her ditch the guy and become yours Link to comment
jecht Posted September 24, 2004 Author Share Posted September 24, 2004 thanks for the help but how could i do that i'm not that good with women Link to comment
G-Master Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 your not the only one. try to make her feel good with you feelings tell her you really like her and ask if she is still boyfriends with the other smuck take a few days to build up the curage to ask her out think about what to say and ask friends if its a good idea or not... try and find one of her frinds to ask for help on asking her out Link to comment
jecht Posted September 24, 2004 Author Share Posted September 24, 2004 another question i know her best friend and we always talk alot. when she ask me if i still like this girl i say yes . she then gives some hints on this girl i like. like telling me her favorite things should i use these thing to get her to like me more Link to comment
G-Master Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 yes you could comepare stuff you both like or for example she like roses, buy her one... or say you like them too but tell her how you feel about her and Ask about her boyfriend to impress her get her something she likes Link to comment
jecht Posted September 24, 2004 Author Share Posted September 24, 2004 i have ask about her boyfriend sadly i only found out she had a boyfriend today and he is way hotter than me(from a girls point of view) and a year older . also i would like to thank u for all the help u have given me Link to comment
G-Master Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 In truth is not how you look but how you think and carry yourself stand tall look confident, dont what ever you do dont be nurvous then approtch her its all about the words you use and how you use them approtch and say like: hey i really like you and i know you have a boyfriend but i was wondering if we could go out sometime make sure shes nice or this wont work Link to comment
jecht Posted September 24, 2004 Author Share Posted September 24, 2004 thanks for the help but i would also like a girls oppinon Link to comment
jecht Posted September 24, 2004 Author Share Posted September 24, 2004 i would also like to say god bless u Link to comment
Protex Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 You're entering a dangerous territory here. You should respect the fact that she has a BF, I'm in a similar situation and didn't respect her having a boyfriend. And am now going through immense heartache. Tread carefully. Link to comment
JRM Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 I'm not a girl, (at least i hope not), but I say don't worry about her boyfriend. Get to know her, joke with her, be her friend. Don't say or do anything towards getting really close to her right now, that would be too fast and intruding. Just make a new friend and have some fun before you get a real chance with her (she dumps her boyfriend or he dumps her). Even if he stays with her for a long time, you'll most likely feel better knowing that you are her friend and can still be close to her. Link to comment
7CardStud Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 Don't put ur heart on the line, 99% u will end up hurting urself... They have B/F's for a reason, ... I tried and failed myself, so i know how it goes Then again she is 3 years older then me (16 / 19), but now we are good friends, which I am cool with. Link to comment
jecht Posted September 24, 2004 Author Share Posted September 24, 2004 i'd like to thank u guys for ur help but i would still like a girls opinon also me a this girl have been friends for about 2-3 yrs Link to comment
jecht Posted September 26, 2004 Author Share Posted September 26, 2004 she already has a boyfriend and isn't going to date someone else is what she said what do i do now Link to comment
JRM Posted September 26, 2004 Share Posted September 26, 2004 Don't take it personally, and wait. Still hang out with her and stuff tho. I guess... Link to comment
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