Scuza Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 Well I didn't respond, I'm assuming she was drunk. No texts today. I have to agree with abitbroken, it doesn't matter if it was your own personal issues that caused the neglect, neglect is neglect. You need to be honest with yourself, do you want a relationship with her or not? If you don't, then don't respond. If you DO, then if you neglected her, you SHOULD respond. Link to comment
RGWT Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 I DO, but I feel she is just using me. If I answer, she will just get her fix, then not speak to me until her terms again. Should I send a text saying saying "I lost my phone! what was your text about?" Or say something like "Lost my phone and just got your texts, plz don't msg me when ur just feeling upset, I'm trying to move on like you wanted. I know we said we would still be friends but I'm not sure I can do that anymore" Link to comment
Scuza Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 Should I send a text saying saying "I lost my phone! what was your text about?" You don't need to give a reason for a late answer. Just ask what she wanted. Link to comment
RGWT Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 i just texted "everything alright?" Link to comment
RGWT Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 If I don't get a response by midnight I'm going to text "Unless something is terribly wrong plz don't msg me. I'm moving on and this isnt facetious to me. I know we decided to still be friends but I don't think I can do that anymore" Link to comment
EgoJoe Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 That would be an ok message. Replace, I don't think with, "I don't want to do that." Link to comment
RGWT Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 That would be an ok message. Replace, I don't think with, "I don't want to do that." I don't want to be too hostile, I ust said " unless something is terribly wrong plz don't meg me. I'm moving on and this isn't facetious to me. I know we decided to be friends but I'm not sure I wan't that anymore" F3ck it Link to comment
EgoJoe Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 That is ok. I was merely trying to get your language to be a little more assertive and selfish. Link to comment
RGWT Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 I know, it's just a little more intricate than that. Thank's for the advice so far. Link to comment
RGWT Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 No response, so selfish. Link to comment
RGWT Posted February 18, 2012 Author Share Posted February 18, 2012 As much as I've been trying to move on, I do would like to be together eventually as contradicting as that sounds. I don't think zero response ever again is a good thing. Link to comment
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