BarbieGirl9897 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 I led a sheltered life and fell into the wrong crowd at college. I'm not proud of my past and I envy these women who have only been with 4 men. I'm in a committed relationship with a man who doesn't care about sex and I'll be honest--that was new to me. He isn't cheating, or have no evidence or reason to suspect he is, but I see him as a way to tame my wild side and start anew. How do I start managing my sex drive a little more? Link to comment
Captain Obvious Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Doesnt care about sex how? Doesnt want sex? Theres nothing wrong with having a high sex drive if thats who you are. Link to comment
BarbieGirl9897 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 He doesn't care if he gets his or not, but will worry about me. Link to comment
Lonewing Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 I led a sheltered life and fell into the wrong crowd at college. I'm not proud of my past and I envy these women who have only been with 4 men. I'm in a committed relationship with a man who doesn't care about sex and I'll be honest--that was new to me. He isn't cheating, or have no evidence or reason to suspect he is, but I see him as a way to tame my wild side and start anew. How do I start managing my sex drive a little more? You like sex...there's no putting the genie back in the bottle now... He might like your wild side...now and then! Link to comment
notafraid Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 I am not a psychologist but whenever we go without something for a long time, we tend to think about it more: water, food, sex, alcohol. I see nothing wrong with having a healthy sex drive. So the question then becomes does your partner satisfy you sexually? Also, are you happy with other aspects of your life? ie. work, social life, etc? Link to comment
chr8st8na Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Geez that would be hard to be with someone who doesn't care for sex. But if you want sex, you might need to reevaluate your relationship. Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 A lot of people only have experience with relationships based on looks, physical attraction, and sex. If that's what your experience has been and now you're with someone who only sees that as one component of a relationship it will be something to get used to, but it's makes for a better relationship overall - give it a try. Link to comment
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