sean95 Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 I'm in love. No doubt about it. I can't stop thinking about him, I can't stop dreaming about him, I can't stop wanting to see him. These dreams have been haunting me just as much as the thought of me and him together have been. I keep having dreams about me and him, in which we are just about to do something, like kiss. But as soon as something like that happens, the dream ends. It's like something is telling me that either nothing is ever going to happen, or that I just sincerely don't know whats going to happen at all. It's a complete mystery, and it's truly killing me inside. Not a day goes by where I don't think about me and him being together. I know this is love because I don't just want to have sex with him. I want to kiss him, and be with him forever. I'm still 70-30 on whether he's gay or not; 70 being he is gay and 30 being he's not. He's a really good looking kid, and a lot of girls like him, but he has no interest whatsoever in hooking up with girls. I also catch him staring at me sometimes. We lock eyes, and every single time that happens a part of my heart stops and starts again. The pain is unbearable and has been going on for too long. Do I wait a while or do I tell him next chance I get? Please, please help. Any other advice would be appreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Betweenthebars Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 If you don't tell him, years later you would have a big 'what if' hanging over your head. What if that boy I loved was too afraid to come out? What if he loved me too? Etc. You only live once, and if you truly love him, tell him your feelings. It is better to face possible rejection than to always wonder what might have been. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildflower25 Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 I'd ask him to hang out sometime and see what he says. Then, go from there building on a friendship and "feel" him out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wildflower25 Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 If you don't tell him, years later you would have a big 'what if' hanging over your head. What if that boy I loved was too afraid to come out? What if he loved me too? Etc. You only live once, and if you truly love him, tell him your feelings. It is better to face possible rejection than to always wonder what might have been. Good luck agreed! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 I think you need to be more certain that he is gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyingpiglet Posted November 23, 2011 Share Posted November 23, 2011 Is this someone your friends with? If not, then try hanging out a little first, that way you have a chance of finding out if he is gay. Don't assume that he is just because he isn't interested in hooking up with these girls. That doesn't determine anything really. Certainly don't jump in with the 'i love you's'. Gay or straight that could send him running for the hills if he barely knows you! If he is already a friend, how about trying to steer the conversation to establish if he is gay. You could ask him how come he hasn't wanted to hook up with any of the girls? Whichever way... Take it slow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sean95 Posted November 23, 2011 Author Share Posted November 23, 2011 yeah its complicated but yeah we're friends. more like we've known each other for so long, and we say hi to each other a lot. Every summer we see each other almost every day/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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