The saying that "nice guys finish last" is true. hahaha I think a big thing is going places where you would find a nice guy. Example.....you'll never find a nice guy at a bar. Everybody knows that while some people don't truly realize it until they learn themselves. You might not even find a nice guy while going out anywhere. Nice guys that are older are working...hanging out with their personal friends and thats it. Sooo...it may be hard to find one initially. I just wouldn't give up. There is definitely someone out there for you, its just a matter of timing and a little luck.