should i hook up with ex's friend like he did to me?

[ann1e]

sooo my ex and my "friend" are still basically together... i want to show my ex that two can play at that game. should i hook up with one of his best friends? I want to show him that I could get someone too but at the same time i dont want to just because i dont want to be classified as a * * * * and/or hurt him... please help

[camus154]

Come on, now. You already know the answer to this.

[HeartGoesOn]

Do you really want to stoop to his level, and be placed in the same category?

[ann1e]

but people are telling me to do it... i know that sounds stupid but my ex is seriously being a butt, im just so mad at him.

[Furbys]

And what is that going to achieve? People will see you in the same negative light and you wont feel any better about yourself. Don't do it and show him that you can be mature.

[ann1e]

ok, i think that's what i'll do! im gonna kill them with kindness... thank yall!

[lanaa]

if you like his friend,do it because you like him

 

if you want revenge, don't do it

[Liraele]

You should never use someone just to further your own agenda - and revenge is rarely, if ever, a "good" agenda in the first place. What would you think of someone like that? Would you want to be associated with them? What if this guy had feelings for you?

 

I'm glad it looks like you are taking people's advice and not doing anything just to get even.

[Awoken]

Agree. Don't do it. You are not only setting yourself up for more 'issues' it's not fair on the guy you are using. Good choice not to do it

[RastaPasta]

Stop focusing on what he is doing and start thinking about what you want. Don't bring another person into your game, you will only end up hurting them.

[toby17]

hmmm

 

This is one of your ex's best friends? And the guy's willing?

 

Is he just looking for a hook up or more?

[ann1e]

this is one of his good friends and we have history together