girl i love ignoring me..... dont know how to deal with it

[dude82]

Well I had sort of a thing in the summer with a girl I have known for a while. It started by us going to a club together with some friends and we ended just hitting it off. It lasted pretty much a month and a half or so and ending up with her totally and completely ignoring me. I dont know why she would be completely ignoring me, I never really did anything.The last night I really saw her (in the sense that we acted like a couple ) was when she came over my house crying about her friend pissing her off. We ended up having sex that night (sorry to be blunt) and just talking. She had told me before that night that she really liked me, and i told her the same. And that night was the night I truly felt I fell in love with her, but from that day forward she started not to return my calls.

 

 

After a while she called me and we went out and she explained to me that she was having problems with her parents and she was sick ,thats why she wasnt returning my calls. Well after sees her that night she pretty much just broke any connections between me and her, she blocked my aim name, didnt return any of my phone messages. I sent her an email and told her I missed her and I wanted to see her. And I instant messaged her under another screenname i had, I told her "Hi and that it was me", and she ended up just logging off. Then after all that she added me to her friends list on myspace, i was like "??"

 

She had told me that I was the nicest anybody has ever treated her.I heard before that she has an jerk ex-boyfriend that treated her like crap, and i suspect she is back with him. Does my situation look hopeless? I really do still care for despite her treating me like i never existed. I really dont want her ending up with this jerk boyfriend she has. But what can I do? I mean i dont want her ending up with this guy, even if nothing happens between us again. I still love her, So is there anything I can do to show her i still care for her? Or did I do everything I could in my situation?

[hardcore]

well for one STALKER maybe it was a one nigth thing . wemen do it to big man. dosen't feel good to be used but it happen's. some time's it's best that we let go. i can understand that you feel strong about here but what can you do if she don't feel the same nothing. who know maybe the more you stay away from her the more she'll think about you . take it from a pro. wemen can't stand not knowing lol. so hope this helps .

[cassiana]

Some people cannot cope with people being nice to them. Maybe they think they don't deserve it or maybe they are afraid of the control love might have over them. other people cannot bear that other people know their secrets, that they have been weak in front of them. It makes them foolish. I will pick an outlandish example. Imagine you told someone that you were a bedwtter and the next morning you wake up and shes next to you and you realise what you said. You think that all she will ever think of when she sees you is bedwetter.Maybe she feels bad about opening up to you and wants to freeze you out because she doesnt want anyone to have the power of knowledge over her. Just a thought.

[dude82]

It wasnt just a one night stand kind of thing. Are relationship lasted longer a while, and are relations happened more than just one time. I know trying to get a hold of her anymore would be the weird thing to do. Its only that she completely ignored me when are relationship started to get serious. So its kind of unresolved for me. Thanks for the advice, even though it ended up being the same my friends told me. There is to much cute girls out there then to just dwell over one.