maddis Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 I dont know if some of you read my story. To make it short, my bf of two years broke up 9 days ago. He didnt want a gf anymore, or the obligations that follows having a gf ( like keeping in touch, plan ahead when to see eachother (we live about an hour of driving apart and hes really seriuos about football), not be able to run his sparetime excactly like he wanted) i was crushed, but its not been so bad as i thought. Im able to have fun, i dont think about it all the time even tho some moments are worse. But ive been really mad at him to not answer me when i have been contacting him to meet me and get my things back as we planned when we broke up. After a week he sent a text asking me how i was, that he was sorry for how things ended and stuff like that. When i answered he didnt respond. He also sent a message to my closest friends, asking for the truth about how im doing, that he still care alot about me and hope still can be friends (he did not tell me any of that) and that he also cared about my friends and hopes that he is still welcome at our parties and stuff like that, and asked them is they think he has acted like a jerk. my friends were pretty harsh on him, but they were just honest, and said that he shouldnt be asking them about that, he should meet and talk to me. yesterday he texted me and said he wanted to meet, and said that he will text me again when he knew when he was of work. today hes at a kind of end-of-season-party with hos footballclub, which was something i was going to go to aswell. a couple of hours ago he texted me a heart. nothing more than " i know i shouldnt be analyzing this too much. but honestly i was just happy when i got the text, i wasnt sad or confused or anything, i just thought it was nice. what do you think hes thinking? is it stupid of me hoping for a good friendship with him? and i also want your experiences on how you felt so shortly after a breakup? cause i really like him, and didnt want it to end at all! but im feeling ok, and i wasnt sad for this text, i thought it was nice. does this mean im in denial and that im to "numb" to feel sad? or im i healing ok? Link to comment
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