Jim Wormold Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Hi all, This is related to another thread (My 2nd rejection since the last one 2 months before. Moving on..), a call from last Monday, 31 Oct. Here's my question: Should I text (or email) my ex to apologise for forcing myself on her with phonecall when I could clearly tell at first that she didn't want to talk? Am I helping her healing by apologising, or just further imposing myself on her space? Or is the only thing I am achieving is to make myself seem insecure and less attractive? Please know, I understand that I have my faults, also that I should be in NC, which I intend continuing from now one! I do recognise the mistake in making contact too early. And yes, I do see the horrible irony now in talking about love when the call was forced. I should add that I stupidly told her that I would not call again, which seems a mean thing now to say as I know she (dumper) was still toying with trying again one day - her heart was just not there yet. I am surprisingly not as affected by the 2nd rejection as I expected. Therefore please don't worry about my side of things, only her perspective. (though it would make me feel better to know I "did the right thing") My question is more related to her healing. Would really appreciate all your thoughts. Link to comment
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