StrangerFriend Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Last week, out of the blue, my boyfriend of the time broke up with me. It was long distant and had just passed 1 yr and 9 months. He lives in CT and I in NY -CT was the closest he could be to me after completing some military classes while he was in CA for 4 months. He says he wouldn't have broken up with me if he wasn't sure of it. He just didn't feel the same way, he thinks I am the most wonderful person and I'll do great things. I'll be able to love someone else and make them happy. He says it takes 2 in a relationship, and it had become one sided, he didn't feel the same way about me as I did about him. And no, I'm confident its not someone else. I feel like its a nightmare. I went to the gym with my best friend and nearly broke down after working out for some time. There isn't a moment I don't think about him everyday, through all of my work, and trying to stay busy. I feel nauseous and I don't want to eat. It feels like a chore to eat. I talk to him, or try to, and I told him I wanted to win him over, and regain his love. He crushes me, he says no and builds his stoic walls to hide his pain, and his hurt. He says I did nothing wrong, he did nothing wrong, his feelings weren't the same. He wants to be my friend, a close friend, but I can't help but bombard him with questions about our past relationship, then start to cry, and make his sad and upset, and I start tearing myself apart. Can someone please explain how someone's feelings can just change? How you can't love someone any more, and refuse to give them another chance? I can't wrap my mind around this whole thing. It makes me so sad I want to win him back, and show him how much I care, and I wish he could feel the same way about me. It makes me feel like used goods. Having your heart returned is the worst gift ever. Link to comment
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