I think i have a flirter! Help me with the flirts.....

[OverIntelligentPLUS]

There is this guy. He happens to be an upper classmen. OOO. Well all of a sudden for the past, oh i dont know maybe 3 weeks i have noticed him flirting with me, well i think so anyways. Well He has played w/ hair (major flirt). He has shown me his boxers, HAHA spongbob. Well um he has put his trumpet almost in my face and he pretends that he is gonna play really loud, and its really soft. I have noticed that he got close to me today during streching for marching band. During Lunch Monday i walk by him without noticing he was there, and he yells out my name, just to say hi. He showed off today, during streching. He started to do push ups, then he was like i'll do claps now. I was like ok w/e. lol. He was basically near me, but not too near me all the time to where it would be obvious. Later when practice was over, he was like bye johnathon, then he said bye to me, he rarely says bye to him, so i was thinking it might have been like a cover up for getting to say bye to me. Oh and yesterday, when we were leaving for practice he walked out with me. Well does it sound like he is flirting or just tring to be nice to me???

[goddess23]

Well it seems like you already know lol. this is not just being friendly he obviously wants your attention and you're obviously looking very deep into every little sign. hes definitely flirting, if he does this wiht just you then he probably likes you. i dont know what you want from this but if you like him you should send him back some signals. but ya its all in fun, but yes he is flirting.

[OverIntelligentPLUS]

wooo hooo !!!!!!!!!!!! I knew it!

ok the hard part for me is flirting back. How should i????

Please help!

thanks

[elysium_dreams_]

Werll there are always a number of things you could do. Just do what he's doing; look for the same opportunities to get close to him or to talk to him and flirt back. He will be watching you for those same signs that he is letting you catch. If he really does like you - it won't be hard to get him to understand the feeling mutual.

[OverIntelligentPLUS]

ok thanks...

[Massari]

don't flirt back.. I think.... ! if you like the guy just ask him out on a date( guys love it when a girl ask them out and she is being staright with them) just don't sacre him.. try to bring the big quation slowly in a flirticious way but yet be serious and get to the point! and I am sure he'd be more than thrilled.... good luck and tell us what happenedafter

[OverIntelligentPLUS]

no offense but i think that would be a bad idea. some please give me ideas... thanks

[theghost]

start touching him....

 

when he does push ups put your arm on his back and push down on him so it will be harder for him to do push ups.....then laught a little, so he won't think you are just some mean person, or if he is strong and you can't lay him down, tell him that he is strong and smile...

 

Always smile at him, when he says hi, say hi back, even better say hi to him first before he does. If you noticed something on his body, like a piece of paper on his hair, just say you got something on your hair and take it out....if he doen't hold a piece of paper on your hand, and touch his hair like you are gonna take the paper out, then show him the paper you had on your hand...

 

If you start doing touching, he well get some hints, just don't do too much touching you might scare him, don't feel on his butt, and crotch, everything else is fine, as long as you think he can handle it.

[OverIntelligentPLUS]

"when he does push ups put your arm on his back and push down on him so it will be harder for him to do push ups.....then laught a little, so he won't think you are just some mean person, or if he is strong and you can't lay him down, tell him that he is strong and smile... "

 

I dont think i could do that. I feel like it would be too mean even if i was joking. I dont want to ruin it thats all. I like this guy a lot, he is smart, fun to be around, hes a great trumpet player, i am getting to be that good. I also play trumpet. He is much more and cute. Very cute.

 

Yeah, i just dont want to ruin anything that i have with him already. I could do the hi and smile thing and maybe like touch him arm if i need him, or something. Is there anything else that you guys have in mind. Like, your a guy, how should i flirt?

Thanks though, it was very helpful.

 

Anyone else is welcome to leave me ideas. PLEASE! lol thanks everyone.

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I am desperate. Please! help me Please!

Thanks