mouseno4 Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Name one and ONLY one thing that will make your heart leap during your first date. Male or female. Lets see if both the males and the females can choose common things! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakeItCount Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 A blowjay. Just kidding. Hmmm...let's go with the same sense of humor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jumper11 Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 chemistry, humour. I'm bad I know, I listed 2. But I can only get a spark off humour if attraction is attached to it, aha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouseno4 Posted June 15, 2011 Author Share Posted June 15, 2011 Yeah it's ok. (bored cooking dinner for family ATM) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BiCurious2011 Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 I've honestly never had a date go all that well in the first place. xD But something big that would really make me go "OMG I love this chick!" is if she said something that I was thinking...for example (and this is just a lame example that I thought off the top of my head) if the waiter walks by and he walks like a duck and she says "Well there goes Daffy Duck!" ...Ok I'm sleep-deprived it's almost 4 in the morning and I can't get to sleep. xD Sorry for the bad example but you get the point (I hope)... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jumper11 Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 My best date, we weren't even able to speak really (language barrier), oddly it was the best date ever, you just need to hit it off. Yea, it's almost 5am here.. I wish it was time to cook dinner like mouse, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maverick1984 Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Based on my personal experience: - Disagreements - Indifference - Aloofness - Sexual - Cocky - Challenging - Physical etc, What women call 'Chemistry' is the tension a man creates in his communication that creates the 'spark' for girls. As a result, girls start to invest more and more which causes attraction. All of the above qualities are the things that Nice guys do not do and is commonly seen by the typical Bad Boy types, which is why they get the most dates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melting Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Fantastic chemistry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
delicous Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Make me laugh and Im yours-- let me rephrase...Im not urs if your make me laugh, but that definetly may create a spark.. eye contact is a huge one for me...but you have to look good... there is No ONE thing I can think of.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reidqa Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 To me and my wife, The most animalistic trait. "Smell" Such was it can remember it today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouseno4 Posted June 15, 2011 Author Share Posted June 15, 2011 Wonder where all the guys went. Pretty much all responses have been from the girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hausser Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Ohh good question. If I'm we're laughing at each others jokes 2hrs in.....if I had to pick something tangible, smell. Distinctive, rare perfum always gets a good reception from me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elcie Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Name one and ONLY one thing that will make your heart leap during your first date. Male or female. Lets see if both the males and the females can choose common things! The first deep look into each others eyes, then that simultaneous smile of recognition.....oops that's two things isn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
He2Him Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Her eyes. . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teaday Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 If I feel comfortable enough to order spaghetti and eat it the way I usually do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silverbirch Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 When I went on my first date with my most recent ex, we really hit it off and were engrossed in conversation. Anyway, both of us looked up and around us at the same time, and then both realised that everybody else had left, but there was this waitress looking at us dreamily, her hand under her chin and resting her elbow on the bar. She was looking at us as if to say "Isn't love grand." It felt like a very special date, and the next one was even better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mouseno4 Posted June 15, 2011 Author Share Posted June 15, 2011 When I went on my first date with my most recent ex, we really hit it off and were engrossed in conversation. Anyway, both of us looked up and around us at the same time, and then both realised that everybody else had left, but there was this waitress looking at us dreamily, her hand under her chin and resting her elbow on the bar. She was looking at us as if to say "Isn't love grand." It felt like a very special date, and the next one was even better. Wow that was so sweet there Silver. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mad rabbits Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 I think its a combination of "clicking" ie similarity as well as a level of difference which fuels curiosity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silverbirch Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Wow that was so sweet there Silver. I wish I hadn't remembered that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LCA1986 Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 For me has been spontaneity. My best dates have been the ones where we had something planned, but instead chose to do something else at the spur of the moment. Ex/ I once met up with this girl at a lounge to get a drink. Then after a couple of hours of conversation, I got my phone out, we looked for events in town, and we found out about an improv show that was going on at midnight. The other good date I can think of was with my ex. We met up for a cup of coffee and then we just decided to go to Six Flags for the day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gimpyrks Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 An amazing smile would def send a spark to me A nice genuine smile that makes me just go "wow" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thatguy42 Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 Hmm, a spark, that seems to be what I'm missing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SimplyMe4ever Posted June 23, 2011 Share Posted June 23, 2011 If a guy buys me flowers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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